rant about men.

[BreakfastSurreal]

I know this. I was merely trying to give OUR side of the argument. So will you agree that men and wome have very opossing ideas of this situation? Then somewhere there should be a compromise, and it should not be all on the man (or womans) shoulder to find that level ground.

to some degree, yes I agree that we have different perspectives. But seriously you should all go out and get the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...you'll never guess who it's written by....a MAN! And he goes into great detail explaining the way men are, and the way women are, and tells us how we should communicate with each other in the respective "language" of our significant others. Men aren't right, women aren't right. We all just ARE. Our own ideas in our own heads guide our conscienceness, and there's nothing anyone can say to make us think/feel/believe another way than that which is own way. It's not about who is right or who is wrong, it's about learning how to cope with each other, grow with each other, and gaining a deeper understanding and respect for each other. Respect is huge. When I hear someone say "omg she won't stop bitching about the lady at work who spilled ketchup on her favorite shirt", it just exudes disrespect to me. The more you understand each other, the more you will respect each other and learn to love the qualities which make everyone so unique and different. /rant.