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CRZY72004 said:
I know I dont remember that kind of stuff
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Definitely not me either. I have to keep a record of birthdays, anniversaries etc to have a fighting chance of remembering. I have a "Birthday Book" application on my computer that is set to appear daily as I log in to remind me of such things. Works for me. Everyone thinks I'm so good at remembering the anniversaries. Little do they know is cause of my little helper. :D. Mum's the word.

Very very rare I remember otherwise. Most of thew women I've come across remember dates (anniversary and otherwise), telephone nos etc like a friggin memory bank, it amazes me. I think is a woman thing.
 
CRZY72004 said:
I cant even remember what I did last night and you want me to remember something that happened a few years ago
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LOL. I thought she was talking bout something major like a wedding or birthday anniversary!!?

But something like a ""since we've been together" Anniversary. Dayuuuumn, that's just putting too much stress on the boy.:24:

Sorry Kat. Ok, I'll ease off now. :)
 
COOL_BREEZE2 said:
That's what it is???...."since we've been together Anniversary"?

Sorry to give you the bad news (or good news).....most men don't remember such things.

Women somehow have a keen memory for dates and stuff but not so much men. I dunno, that's just the way it is.

BTW, Happy Anniversary Kat.
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id understand that if it was the fact that he hadnt remembered...he knew the date...he remembered...he knew it was coming...he has a better memory than i do.

and thanks to you and peter though that was sweet of you guys
 
Kat said:
isnt it obvious youre supposed to get your girl flowers a card or something...at the very least say happy anniversary to her on the day and mean it :mad:( especially when you have to work all that night and wont even be home to do anything with her

I know I know...should be used to it by now

*end vent*
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Oh Kat - it just gets worse hun. He should have done something. It has come across for a while now, that he appears to have just given up, doesn't care and can only be 'nice' very on and off. It's not consistent at all?

I just hope the things you are waiting for before you take serious action, happen very soon for you hun, I really do.

I had to wait to do certain things before I ended the relationship I was in (not the one I have just had end, the one before that), so I know how you are feeling, same goes for you Amy. :)

COOL_BREEZE2 said:
That's what it is???...."since we've been together Anniversary"?

Sorry to give you the bad news (or good news).....most men don't remember such things.

Women somehow have a keen memory for dates and stuff but not so much men. I dunno, that's just the way it is.

BTW, Happy Anniversary Kat.
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Yes, but he didn't even have any excuse not to do anything - she said 'happy anniversary' to him. Perfect opportunity for him to have at least said the same back. He has no excuse at all. Then he could have said he will bring a nice surprise for her when he gets home (even if he had to go and buy it first). That would have kept her thinking happy thoughts for the rest of the day then, at least. He just doesn't care to have done that.

With other men, it's just purely cos they hopelessly forget - men who don't give a damn, just don't bother at all.

Peter Parka said:
You should, its the little things like that women remember, trust me, if you did I'm sure your partner would give you a night to remember.;)
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Yes and you know Peter, cos you do all kinds of lovely celebratory things for yr wife, for anniversaries etc. :) ;)

COOL_BREEZE2 said:
LOL. I thought she was talking bout something major like a wedding or birthday anniversary!!?

But something like a ""since we've been together" Anniversary. Dayuuuumn, that's just putting too much stress on the boy.:24:

Sorry Kat. Ok, I'll ease off now. :)
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CB, believe me, that is major. It's still got great meaning to a girl and some couples do actually celebrate their time since they got together - one year, two years, however long they have been together.:)
 
and by the way....if we ever happened to make it to marriage...i would be fine with him forgetting the day we got together...but since we arent married....this is the anniversary thats supposed to be special.

grr why dont most guys understand that
 
pony girl 05 said:
kat hun no it wouldnt be ok
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maybe not...but i wouldnt know till it happened :cool so i really wouldnt know how i felt until then though i was just guessing that id be more ok with him forgetting this as long as he didnt forget the marriage anniversary ...but again i wouldnt know unless it happened (which from the looks of it is not going to at least not anytime in the near future)
 
Kat said:
id understand that if it was the fact that he hadnt remembered...he knew the date...he remembered...he knew it was coming...he has a better memory than i do.

and thanks to you and peter though that was sweet of you guys
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Damn him then Kat. The rat. No excuse then. That changes everything. 'Specially if he knows you're sentimental bout such things. Damn, hope I haven't made you gone back to feeling bad again.

Women...got bless your sentimental souls. Is true what I was saying bout most guys not remembering dates and stuff tho so you would not have felt so bad. Then again, maybe he just doesn't see it as that important. Maybe if was a birthday or sum'p might have been more significant to him.

Something to keep in mind...not all guys are as sentimental when it comes to anniversaries. Not that it deminishes the love for his partner, just that it's not all that important to them.
 
Kat said:
maybe not...but i wouldnt know till it happened :cool so i really wouldnt know how i felt until then though i was just guessing that id be more ok with him forgetting this as long as he didnt forget the marriage anniversary ...but again i wouldnt know unless it happened (which from the looks of it is not going to at least not anytime in the near future)
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Im not going to comment on this either :cool
 
lol i know...just figured id put it in white anyways cause its so far fetched of an idea

lol i think i have a good idea of what your thinking about my comment anyways :p audra you are the best :p sometimes you not commenting says more than a comment ;)
 
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