Finding ways to spend your time is a tough one.
If I am bored and don't have anything to do .. I post on these forums (I'm on like 6, so if one is slow I move to the next one. Sometimes hours will float away if I'm not careful lol).
I also visit my local Goodwill and buy books. I prefer thriller/suspense/plot books .. they keep my attention and I can sit and read them for hours at a time. Sometimes I can finish a 500 page one in one sitting/day. If I'm so inclined lol. I get lost in the story and forget everything else.
Call up GF's and go hang out. Or go shopping, even if you can't buy anything.
I also took up taking pictures. You don't have to be a "pro" for it to be enjoyable. It's fun to drive around and take pictures of old stuff and/or flowers and stuff.
If you like movies join that Blockbuster online dvd rental thing (it's fairly cheap).. so if you're bored you can just pop in a movie and waste away 2 hours at a time.
There are so many things to fill your time beside men. We are fed this line that we "need" them .. and we don't .. we WANT them. Once we train our brains back to realizing that we actually just want them .. life runs much smoother. They don't control you .. they turn back into being "companions" again and not "life".
