Random PW thread! (part 2)
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333halfabeast
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I think it took me 6 months of just being completely off men before I even started to flirt again or be more friendly to men. It's great to have that time alone and grow. I changed a lot during that time. You'll have a better eye out for men and know what you want more while not wanting to change yourself for the person but have them being a part of your life while you don't sacrifice yourself.
The first married man was the very overbearing, controlling type and jealous. He said he was 32, he ended up being in his mid to late 40's with a teen daughter he hardly mentioned. I knew I was the other woman but I was blinded in love with a very low self esteem when I met him, we argued every week where I ended up being the bad person all the time and I felt like I was doing a crappy job where I always apologized and I couldn't have enough courage to end it, I feel for any woman who felt like that, it's total shit.
I had no idea. I couldn't possibly give up flirting it is part of how my friends and I survive in NYC, lol. But I did give up on men now I am way too critical of men and refuse to just date anyone. I will go out once on a plutonic "getting to know you" date but I will not commit unless it is absolutely the right man.
haha.... i always had bad experiences with bikes ya know.... dunno if thats clumsy or just bad luck XDI'm clumsy with lots of things too!
333halfabeast
1/2 Angel 1/2 Devil
Lesson learned. I was very particular growing up because I didn't want boys to get in the way of school. Heck, I was a virgin until my sophomore year in college. Then I was used by a man and swore I wouldn't date. So my next date was when I was 23. In all I have only really been with 4 men. I have no problem waiting. I want husband/father material so I will go on interview dates until I find him.
333halfabeast
1/2 Angel 1/2 Devil
What is XD?
turn your head to the left... its a laughing thing see??
333halfabeast
1/2 Angel 1/2 Devil
Oh, I see it now.
You're very smart and intelligent for waiting and knowing what you want in a relationship.
333halfabeast
1/2 Angel 1/2 Devil
You're very smart and intelligent for waiting and knowing what you want in a relationship.
Thanks. I have tried to be successful at most anything I try to do. Which is why I swore off boys during school. I graduated NYU Cum Laude and I have a reasonably successful career, I don't want to blow my success on a dud of a man. lol.
I was the same way in the past 5 or so years but mostly because most of my friends were getting pregnant, that's good you have your head on straight. That's a great artribute.
333halfabeast
1/2 Angel 1/2 Devil
I was the same way in the past 5 or so years but mostly because most of my friends were getting pregnant, that's good you have your head on straight. That's a great artribute.
Thank you again. I really hope you get everything you are looking for too.
You know we still havent been called out for what we did!i'm really bored now..
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