Minx Kitten
New Member
Not trying to critise your point of view because I don't see any wrongs or rights here if both are happy with the arangement. In my relationship my wife and I think that honesty is really important. With this in mind my wife would rather know when I'm watching porn than hiding it from her. Because she's ill I have a higher sex drive than her. Because of this there are times when she's rather me have a wank when I'm feeling horny.
In your case, I can undertstand why you have the agreement that you do.
And I agree that honesty is important in a relationship, but when it comes to porn I think it' just about not rubbing it in your partner's face, that's all. I mean, I'm not stupid... If I tell him he can watch it but not show it to me, and I never see him watching porn ever again, I'm not gonna go around in my naive little world and think he stopped watching it!
But I do appreciate not having to hear about all the other girls he might or might not be comparing me to in his mind. It just brings my confidence down when I have to hear about it. It' exhausting. 
