Question for females

[TheOriginalJames]

Now we all know of the thread for girls in the underground and all the pictures in there.

But lets get realistic, is those pictures really what girls look for? They seem to be entirely too perfect.

I'm wondering this because all girls think all guys want someone with the most round ass and the biggest boobs. It's simply not true.

I realize that girls have different attractions to different types of guys, but it seems to me that a guy has to resemble someone like what's displayed in those pictures.

Gimme some insight there, girls... maybe you'll be slightly less confusing (although I'll never understand you, or plan too.)

 

[Tazzy]

well coming from an older one looks aint everything ......... personality does come in ( but of course a nice BUTT doesnt hurt heheheheheh )...and also haveing things in commen as well ... Just cause he looks good doesnt mean hes right for me ....... After all some times they open there mouth and it really makes them UGLY.........SO to me get to know the person and then decide if hes right are not .......OH and driving a Mustang doesnt hurt either hehehehehehe :banana :banana :banana

 

[Jersey]

honestly.. i dont feel i can be myself around a guy thats too perfect. I have to able to act silly or stupid- and not feel like an ass around a guy. he has to know how to have fun (but not be a drunken asshole at the same time)


so thats my input

 

[hhayes]

the guys in that thread are for us girls to look at. personally i don't look at the guys in the pics and say, ooh thats what i want my man to look like, its just like, dayum, he looks good. looks may help but its definately not everything. and you damn sure can't do nothin with a picture

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Well what kind of guy do you girls find yourself attracted to, personality aside.

I tend to look for the girls who won't make an assessment based off a first impression. I try not to do the same, but to get to know girls first. This is my downfall really, because we become good friends... and the girl never wants to go past that.

I love hanging around girls whoh aren't bitchy, but aren't too nice either. Good sense of humor with good looks. I have to be physically attracted, of course, but Cs and Ds tend to be too big for my tastes. Physical attraction isn't anywhere near my top list of whats important though.

 

[hhayes]

being friends is very important, you have to be able to enjoy yourself and be comfortable around the person. being able to joke around is a plus,and knowing when to be a little more serious about things. some guys try to show off and end up making an ass of themselves, when instead they should just be themselves and take it easy. i think girls like a guy who has control of his life and what he's doing, but also will show their weaknesses. but every girl has their own things they like about a guy.... :dunno

 

[Sim]

Personally, I look for what is in a guy's eyes. If I can look into them and feel my heart melt, then that's good enough for me.

I don't even remember looking at the rest of him...it was just that gentle nature that was appealing to me.

Granted, when I see him now, I love him for a lot more than just his eyes. He's also a cat lover...and that's an added bonus right there. *winks* He has a great sense of humor, good values, and best of all...he cares for me whether I'm sick or well. It just feels like home when I'm in his arms.

 

[Kerrie]

I, like Sim, start at his eyes then onto his smile. Does he look me in the face when he speaks to me? How does he treat others? Is he open-minded?
hhayes was right on the money when she said " i think girls like a guy who has control of his life and what he's doing, but also will show their weaknesses." That is so true.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I think attractiveness in a guy is if he has a big heart, silliness, his personality, someone who has a big smile, and shows it alot .

I could care less if he has a little extra baggage or if he makes less money than me or if he doesnt have big muscles. None of that is what draws me to a guy.

 

[Tazzy]

i agree Miss Behavin it should be totally if you melt when you look in his eyes ...Are if he makes your heart race when your around him ...... No more no less ...... :rock

 

[UncleBacon]

Re: RE: Question for females

the guys in that thread are for us girls to look at. personally i don't look at the guys in the pics and say, ooh thats what i want my man to look like. when I look at bacon and the pics he put in there, its just like, dayum, he looks good. looks may help but its definately not everything. and you damn sure can't do nothin with a picture

thank you heather...lol...

 

[RedStangGT2000]

Re: RE: Question for females

Personally, I look for what is in a guy's eyes. If I can look into them and feel my heart melt, then that's good enough for me.

I don't even remember looking at the rest of him...it was just that gentle nature that was appealing to me.

Granted, when I see him now, I love him for a lot more than just his eyes. He's also a cat lover...and that's an added bonus right there. *winks* He has a great sense of humor, good values, and best of all...he cares for me whether I'm sick or well. It just feels like home when I'm in his arms.

Sim you are awsome your BF is a lucky sob

 

[Veronica]

Re: RE: Question for females

I, like Sim, start at his eyes then onto his smile. Does he look me in the face when he speaks to me? How does he treat others? Is he open-minded?
hhayes was right on the money when she said " i think girls like a guy who has control of his life and what he's doing, but also will show their weaknesses." That is so true.

exactly!

He has to have a great sense of humor and has to be able to communicate.

 

[ProjectMayhem]

Re: RE: Question for females

Well what kind of guy do you girls find yourself attracted to, personality aside.

They definitely have to carry themself well. I don't want to be with anyone who displays a cocky or angry character. I love an amazing smile, and I'm a sucker for dark hair and eyes. I'm 5'2'', so I prefer someone who is at least 5'6'', but over 6' is even better. I don't mind the body type, as long as they are healthy. I personally like chunky guys because they give great hugs, and I feel safer around them. They gotta have a cute face. Tattoos, especially gauntlets and sleeves, are extra, extra points. I don't like smokers, druggies, or heavy drinkers, so that pretty much narrows it down to about.... oh, I don't know, 2% of the guys in the world. Finding them is the hardest part. And then I have to factor in the personality points... *le sigh*

 

[hhayes]

Re: RE: Question for females

the guys in that thread are for us girls to look at. personally i don't look at the guys in the pics and say, ooh thats what i want my man to look like. when I look at bacon and the pics he put in there, its just like, dayum, he looks good. looks may help but its definately not everything. and you damn sure can't do nothin with a picture

thank you heather...lol...

you are so crazy lol

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: Question for females

Well thank you...but perhaps you should tell HIM that. *winks*

Sim you are awsome your BF is a lucky sob

 

[Rusteh]

Re: RE: Question for females

Well thank you...but perhaps you should tell HIM that. *winks*

Sim you are awsome your BF is a lucky sob

it's against man code to do that.

 

[Tazzy]

Why should it be ??????? :dunno

 

[Kerrie]

Re: RE: Question for females

Why should it be ??????? :dunno

I agree Tazzy. Why is that??

 

[lemon]

it just is