Question about the opposite sex

[AUDRAA]

oh look another dating question lol
Do any of you think that you would not approach someone of the opposite sex becase of how they looked? Im not saying if they are nasty looking Im saying becuse you feel intimidated by there looks?
Also If you met someone and they had a great personality and you really clicked but when you met them face to face the personal features werent quite what you anticipated would you reconsider your opinion on that person?
Discuss.....

 

[Caprica]

I'm definitely never intimidated by looks. On the other hand, it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like. It's just not the most important thing about a person. Especially in the case you mention, where you already know them in some way before you meet them face to face. I think maybe sometimes the click that happens online or over the phone is even more sincere and honest then what happens in person. Other than perhaps a hygiene issue, if I already was into someone before I met them, nothing else would really matter.

 

[Suzie]

I'm definitely never intimidated by looks. On the other hand, it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like. It's just not the most important thing about a person. Especially in the case you mention, where you already know them in some way before you meet them face to face. I think maybe sometimes the click that happens online or over the phone is even more sincere and honest then what happens in person. Other than perhaps a hygiene issue, if I already was into someone before I met them, nothing else would really matter.

:withstupid:

 

[Maritxu]

I think looks matter a lot when it is about first impressions, but thank God not all human beings let themselve be guided by those first judgements. I think when I like a person anyway I'm a bit less objective about their looks and I see them beautiful to me, because everyone is beautiful in their own way anyway.

 

[GraceAbounds]

I think looks matter when it is about first impressions, but thank God not all human beings let themselve be guided by those first judgements. I think when I like a person anyway I'm a bit less objective about their looks and I see them beautiful to me, because everyone is beautiful in their own way anyway.

:clap Agree'd.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I think looks matter a lot when it is about first impressions, but thank God not all human beings let themselve be guided by those first judgements. I think when I like a person anyway I'm a bit less objective about their looks and I see them beautiful to me, because everyone is beautiful in their own way anyway.

Couldnt have said it better myself

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Do any of you think that you would not approach someone of the opposite sex becase of how they looked? Im not saying if they are nasty looking Im saying becuse you feel intimidated by there looks?

Happens all the time to me. But I also feel that if I see a beautiful girl, I don't want to hit on them seeing as how they probably get hit on and whistled at all the time. I'm nothing special so I'm not going to bother "harassing" them.

Also If you met someone and they had a great personality and you really clicked but when you met them face to face the personal features werent quite what you anticipated would you reconsider your opinion on that person?

Nope. Personality is personality, but clicking with them on a friendship level is different than a relationship level.

There does need to be a physical attraction, you can't say "personality is most important" because then some butt ugly people (aka me) would be getting laid. Looks and physical attraction do play a role.

Discuss.....

Does this mean I'm Discussting? (sorry, Eminem line)

 

[Suzie]

Does this mean I'm Discussting? (sorry, Eminem line)

But it's just me, I'm just obscene.

 

[GuesSAngel]

I wasn't really intimidated by any guys looks. If I was out looking, I could go up to anyone. If a guy wasn't that good looking but had a great personality I would eventually be interested. Looks aren't everything in the beginning, I feel the more you know the person the better looking they are. That could be the same with a good looking guy who has a shitty personality right off the bat...they just automatically become ugly to me.

 

[sundvlfn88]

Looks aren't intimidating. First impressions come by looks up until you finally start talking to someone. Then they say the first 7 seconds is the first impression stage. I think if someone isn't really great looking it could be made up in the personality of the person. It is what is on the inside that counts the most.

 

[NightWarrior]

But it's just me, I'm just obscene.

Always quoting song lyrics?

Fall Out Boy this time I see...

 

[GraceAbounds]

I feel the more you know the person the better looking they are. That could be the same with a good looking guy who has a shitty personality right off the bat...they just automatically become ugly to me.

Ditto to that GA.

 

[Jersey]

Always quoting song lyrics?

Fall Out Boy this time I see...

nope-- thats an eminem lyric! i know it is!!!!

 

[Jersey]

as for me... i have dated some really good looking guys, and some that wouldnt be considered physically attractive in todays standards...

i say to hell with that... when someone has a personality that shines and loves you to death... you will absolutely find them attractive. and F.U to anyone that says otherwise... (theyre probably just jealous anyway)

 

[Peter Parka]

The kind of girls I go for arn't good looking in the conventional way and a lot of girls like that I've found to be prick teases and shallow. Its whats in the mind and heart which counts.

 

[Suzie]

nope-- thats an eminem lyric! i know it is!!!!

LOL Fall out boy????? Your right Jersy!!

 

[Jersey]

maybe he thought it was "this aint a scene........"- fall out boy

 

[Suzie]

Thats possible. I hate fall out boy though!

 

[Demonica69]

I wasn't really intimidated by any guys looks. If I was out looking, I could go up to anyone. If a guy wasn't that good looking but had a great personality I would eventually be interested. Looks aren't everything in the beginning, I feel the more you know the person the better looking they are. That could be the same with a good looking guy who has a shitty personality right off the bat...they just automatically become ugly to me.

i totally agree

 

[Obsession2Speed]

personally i dont judge looks what so ever.....Reason being, in years to come we wont look exactly like we look today....So when dating girls i think like that...Sure she may be hot today but what about in 10-15yrs after she pops out a few kids and etc etc...Is she gonna look the same? Wont know until that time comes...Good looking girls can get ugly, ugly girls can get good looking, you just never know...Therefore i judge nothing but the personality cause usually that will always be the same....As for being intimidated...Not at all..