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Veronica

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I talked to him and things are much better.. I told him that i was sorry for acting like an asshole- i know its not his fault. but it does suck. He said he was gonna try to get out of it, but to not get my hopes up. He told me that he was bringing me coffee this morning, until i told him to leave me alone.. So I got no coffee. :( lol sucks for me. :(
 

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hes a good guy V you know he will try to do what it takes to make you happy! And stop being such a bitch hes trying to be nice by doing things like that because he feels bad :)
 

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Aww V...I so feel how this is upsetting, what i think ya need to remember is, hes trying...he loves you...and you two have the rest of your lives together. So if things suck right now..its just a lil stitch in lifes tapestry thats come loose..easy to fix xxxxx
 

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Evan, you just remember who has the BIG guns.. ;)



On a side note, I asked him to quit texting me this morning because I didnt want to be mean to him.. i was upset and didnt want to say anything that I would of regretted. Believe me, it was a good thing. I knew it wasnt his fault. I was just upset at the situation and how I was feeling. :( But after getting yelled at by EVAN, I see the light.
 

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Evan, you just remember who has the BIG guns.. ;)



On a side note, I asked him to quit texting me this morning because I didnt want to be mean to him.. i was upset and didnt want to say anything that I would of regretted. Believe me, it was a good thing. I knew it wasnt his fault. I was just upset at the situation and how I was feeling. :( But after getting yelled at by EVAN, I see the light.


I have been called this before.....The bringer of light:D
 

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Ok, Maybe Im just being a bitch... Heres the situation

Yall know that Zach is working nights.. I work days - so I NEVER see him.. Well does it count that I sleep in the bed with him for 3-4 hours with me not even knowing he is in bed?.. He is suppose to have the weekends off- but his work has this thing called a draft, where they will draft workers to work weekends too and its manditory.. Last weekend he was drafted. I had no kids (i did work.. but I had the nights free for us time...He didnt even get home till 1 or so..

Well, Since I havent spend any quality time with him for over 2 weeks now, I was looking forwards to this weekend. I made plans to go out with a friend of mine and her boyfriend. Zach really likes her boyfriend, so it would be good. I was really looking forward to it. Now he tells me that he has to work again.. I know i shouldnt be pissed at him.. its not his fault.. But WTF! This is worse than when I was married!! I am beyond pissed.. I even told zach to NOT text me for a while because I am pissed off.. I dont want to say anything to him that I would regret.... I was really looking forward to spending some alone time with him.. to have my BOYFRIEND BACK!! This sucks.

I am sitting here at work with tears running down my face because I am so aggravated! Why even have a man when you dont see him??!!!


It does suck when you cant see the person you love so much i know how that is and i know its really hard too in time it will get better i hope
 

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Well hun, I'm almost positive he's upset too about this and worried about you guys just as much as you're worried.. you gotta ask him to ask for a night off, he can't always just go in he needs a life beyond work..
 

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Its mandatory.. Thats what sucks. They can do this. It wouldnt even be a problem if it was during the day.. :(
 

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Hey V. if your man cant be there for you on Valentines day. You know I will be!


Now get your sweet ass in my thread and bid!!
 

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Its mandatory.. Thats what sucks. They can do this. It wouldnt even be a problem if it was during the day.. :(

I had a boyfriend who had mandatory.. I made him stop going :S (he wasn't fired)

Yeah, I understand hun.. that's really complicated.. I can't believe they're not giving him time off
 

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70 hours a week? holy shit. If I were him, I'd go about like I had made plans and say NO I made plans already I can't come in or if they call on the weekend act like you're out of the house having a life. They don't know wtf you're doing on your off time and I sure as hell wouldn't think they could fire you for not standing by your phone 27/7.
 

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Its in their contract.. if they are drafted they HAVE to go..


i understand that and it sucks. everything will come into place and it will be ok. just when you get really really pissed take a deep breath before you say something you might regret. it was great that you told him you were upset not to text you.
 

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See I figured it was good that I told him that too.. I just didnt want to say anything that I might regret. :(
 
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