Physical attractions

[36gamer]

You can't always control the thoughts that come into your mind. What you do with those thoughts is a completely different story. If you are married and you see a girl with a nice butt and the thought "dat ass" pops into your mind, then there is nothing wrong with that. Now if you start fantasizing about how you want to screw her and can't stop thinking about it, that's another thing. It wouldn't necessarily be cheating, but at that point I would say it would be wrong. Now if the thought "I'd like to screw her" just popped into your mind and you were like "but that's wrong" and you force your mind to think elsewhere, then that would be the right thing to do. Unless something physical happens it's not cheating or anything. But I think if you keep those lingering thoughts there and dwell on them then it can be potentially damaging and wrong.

 

[Panacea]

Are you gonna finish that cake?

-Donnie

Haha, yanno, sometimes when you're busy dreaming of cream, someone comes by and snatches up your cake :24:

 

[Niyi Briggs]

As a married person, it is wrong and disrespectful to have sexual feelings for another person. It won't take time before you start acting on that feelings somehow. And you kill a lady if she ever gets to know that her man is sexually attracted to another person.

 

[Nomad]

Marriage demands faithfulness not just in physical forum (getting physical with another person) but also mentally (not thinking about other people). By the way, as long as you are in love with your spouse, I don't think you will be attracted towards other person.