What I continuously am trying to help people understand is the basic theory that there are two realms of human existence. 1) Our version of an idealistic society where we enforce justice, laws, and fair play. 2) The reality of the universe that does not play by fair rules, but by random ordinances of chance and luck and a human point of view of justice in obsolete.
Fate in a sense that it is relevant and meant to happen at the moment it happens because IT DID happen. It HAPPENED, therefore it is RELEVANT. Does anything happen that isn't supposed to? If it wasn't supposed to, then WHY the fuck did it happen?
Fate in a sense that the action was preplanned, no.