Parted At Birth Twins Married

Peter Parka

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Parted-at-birth twins 'married'
A pair of twins who were adopted by separate families as babies got married without knowing they were brother and sister, a peer told the House of Lords. A court annulled the British couple's union after they discovered their true relationship, Lord Alton said.
The peer - who heard of the case from a judge who was involved - said the twins felt an "inevitable attraction".
He said the case showed how important it was for children to be able to find out about their biological parents.
Details of the identities of the twins involved have been kept secret, but Lord Alton said the pair did not realise they were related until after their marriage.
'Truth will out'
The crossbench peer, a former Liberal Democrat MP, raised the couple's case during a House of Lords debate on the Human Fertility and Embryology Bill in December.
"They were never told that they were twins," he told the Lords.
"They met later in life and felt an inevitable attraction, and the judge had to deal with the consequences of the marriage that they entered into and all the issues of their separation."
He told the BBC News website that their story raises the wider issue of the importance of strengthening the rights of children to know the identities of their biological parents.




"If you start trying to conceal someone's identity, sooner or later the truth will out," he said.
"And if you don't know you are biologically related to someone, you may become attracted to them and tragedies like this may occur."
Pam Hodgkins, chief executive officer of the charity Adults Affected by Adoption (NORCAP) said there had been previous cases of separated siblings being attracted to each other.
"We have a resistance, a very strong incest taboo where we are aware that someone is a biological relative," she said.
"But when we are unaware of that relationship, we are naturally drawn to people who are quite similar to ourselves.
'Incredibly rare'
"And of course there is unlikely to be anyone more similar to any individual than their sibling."
Mo O'Reilly, director of child placement for the British Association for Adoption and Fostering, said the situation was traumatic for the people involved, but incredibly rare.
"Thirty or 40 years ago it would have been more likely that twins be separated and, brought up without knowledge of each other," she said.
Today, however, adopted children grow up with a greater knowledge of their birth families - and organisations try to place brothers and sisters together.
If that were not possible, the siblings would still have some form of contact with each other.
"This sad case illustrates why, over the last 20-30 years, the shift to openness in adoption was so important," Ms O'Reilly added.

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:wtf:

HOLD THE PRESSES!!!!

Didn't they have any kind of resemblance???...I mean...Twins and all. :confused

This just don't make sense.

Not if they're fraternal twins...I mean if you look hard enough, almost everyone can look at someone and point out similaities between them...and they probably did for all we know...lol!!!


"Wouldn't it be weird if we like all the same things if we were seperated at birth?" - conversation overheard through the thin walls of their flat.
 
Not if they're fraternal twins...I mean if you look hard enough, almost everyone can look at someone and point out similaities between them...and they probably did for all we know...lol!!!


"Wouldn't it be weird if we like all the same things if we were seperated at birth?" - conversation overheard through the thin walls of their flat.

Hell, even there's some resemblance in non-twins in siblings, far less for being twins...identical or not.
 
this is such a story,and it must have been a very painful time for those two people.
ofcourse now this has brought the debate concerning confidentiality within adoption and donors within fertility to the fore here in britain
 
This reminds me of something my mother said. Always be careful you don't meet and fall for one of your half sisters. My biological father who I've never met has children by 3 women including my mother and I've only met one sister she is 8 years younger than me. You can see a resemblance but that might not be a case for all of them. He has like 10 children and As fas I know they're all in the area except the sister I've met. I know i have a sister thats almost of not 21 already that i haven't met.
 
I saw this too Peter.

This is so devestating for them and so hurtful that they didn't have the choice to be kept or adopted, were seperated too, not told the other existed or who the other was, then go through all this.

I was wondering if there had been any more on this case - I just hope they are able to get through all of this.

I only hope children do get told now, no matter what, who their birth mother was - without all the red tape too. It isn't the fault of children who have been adopted, so why shouldn't they have that right to know all the details they need to know, twins or no twins at that.

This is so sad and although has happened in the past, it still makes it just as hellish for them.

No-one has the right to do that to children. :(
 
This reminds me of something my mother said. Always be careful you don't meet and fall for one of your half sisters. My biological father who I've never met has children by 3 women including my mother and I've only met one sister she is 8 years younger than me. You can see a resemblance but that might not be a case for all of them. He has like 10 children and As fas I know they're all in the area except the sister I've met. I know i have a sister thats almost of not 21 already that i haven't met.

I have a similar fear. My mother was not even sure who my father was. So I've always been "on the look-out" and thinking I may have some half-siblings out there somewhere. She never kept in contact with the 2 men who could have fathered me, so I have no idea what ever became of their lives.
 
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