Oh, this one irks me!
People are scared to punish their children from fear of being labeled as a beater or bad parent. Dude I was flogged with the cord of a kettle FFS!
We were taught, children are to be seen and not heard. you are not the boss of the family until you earn the respect to be so.
I raised my boys in the same way, I was such a cow when they were little I had so many rules and if they needed a smack, they got one. I used to get teased about it constantly from my friends and peers that I was too hard on them (these were parents that never punished their children)
The difference today, i have raised two well adjust, self-sufficient, charming and courteous Men who have respect for their elders.
The others, their children are now men and women who have been in several situations of trouble and unexpected issues arising from lack of discipline and care of where they are or what they are doing.
It's easy to shove your child in front of a computer, TV or give them your phone and allow them to throw a tantrum when you take it away, its ok to take a little more time to actually raise children I mean after all the responsibilities of parents is to literally Mould a new person from scratch in the image and ideals that you have.