oh he makes my blood boil

[pinkporridge]

My boyfried has this "friend" i say friend hes more his dads age and if im honest i worry about his intentions towards any. hes always buying him things and wants to be around him. hes a disguting creepy old man!!
anyway he treats andys mum like shit! he shouts at her and is rude to her all the time and no one says shit to him. So today this douche bag wants put on andys mums insurance polocy for a car that we are giving him cos he cant add another car to his own. Andys mum quite rightly wants to know exactly how much it costs to maked sure HE is paying her cos its her policy. He started screaming at her telling her it doesnt matter the cost and he was being really aggressive! again no one said shit.

So i tore up stairs and i was like First of all she has the right to know what is happening to her policy! if you dont like it you insure it on your own! he was like i cant do that. Well that your problem then isnt it!? you dont come into some one else house asking them for a favor and speak to the like shit and by the way, the way you were speaking to her was fucking disgusting!! and STILL no one backed me!! wtf is wrong with ppl! hes not family! the guys a jerk! hes not a friend they need around! I fucking hate him! i hate the way he speaks to Andy's mum its so disrespectful!

 

[Pumpkin]

My boyfried has this "friend" i say friend hes more his dads age and if im honest i worry about his intentions towards any. hes always buying him things and wants to be around him. hes a disguting creepy old man!!
anyway he treats andys mum like shit! he shouts at her and is rude to her all the time and no one says shit to him. So today this douche bag wants put on andys mums insurance polocy for a car that we are giving him cos he cant add another car to his own. Andys mum quite rightly wants to know exactly how much it costs to maked sure HE is paying her cos its her policy. He started screaming at her telling her it doesnt matter the cost and he was being really aggressive! again no one said shit.

So i tore up stairs and i was like First of all she has the right to know what is happening to her policy! if you dont like it you insure it on your own! he was like i cant do that. Well that your problem then isnt it!? you dont come into some one else house asking them for a favor and speak to the like shit and by the way, the way you were speaking to her was fucking disgusting!! and STILL no one backed me!! wtf is wrong with ppl! hes not family! the guys a jerk! hes not a friend they need around! I fucking hate him! i hate the way he speaks to Andy's mum its so disrespectful!

I'm confused, is he your boyfriends friend or your boyfriends, mums boyfriend?

Sounds like a strange situation and he sounds like a bit of a twat!

 

[pinkporridge]

no my boyfriends friend. ie nothing to do with the family. complete asshole. he has no right to shout at andys mum like that

 

[Pumpkin]

no my boyfriends friend. ie nothing to do with the family. complete asshole. he has no right to shout at andys mum like that

That's very odd. It's good that you defended your mother in law!

 

[pinkporridge]

i dont care about the insurance policy thats just back story they can do what they want in regards to that.He cant add the car to his own policy cos he has totalled too many cars through drink driving. Even that doesnt bother me. Has nothing to do with me!
but to come into someones house asking for that kind of favor and then to have the CHEEK of shouting at her like that in her own home is frankly disgusting! am not sorry i exploded at him even for a second!

 

[Zorak]

Your boyfriend needs to step up for once, he didn't kick that weird bloke out of your flat either, did he?
and he just lets someone talk that way to his family?

 

[pinkporridge]

he is too nice to him for some weird reason. This guy does it ALL the time infront of andys dad too. no wonder the woman has no self confidence! today i had enough! Im not going to let him speak to her like that. He;d better not do it again while im around!

 

[AUFred]

Good for you for wearing the pants.

 

[Racks]

Your boyfriend needs to step up for once, he didn't kick that weird bloke out of your flat either, did he?
and he just lets someone talk that way to his family?

^^^ This... I was gonna write the exact same thing... WTF dude aint got no backbone if he lets anyone speaks to his mother like that

 

[pinkporridge]

its not like that. He did tell him not to but not with enough force. He was on the phone to the insurance company at the time too.

 

[Racks]

its not like that. He did tell him not to but not with enough force. He was on the phone to the insurance company at the time too.

Alright... Well I don't know the ins & outs of any of this only what you wrote...
But you handled the situation awesomely but you shouldn't have had to.
I gotta a few friends that I wouldn't bring anyway near my mums house and I don't

 

[Pumpkin]

Alright... Well I don't know the ins & outs of any of this only what you wrote...
But you handled the situation awesomely but you shouldn't have had to.
I gotta a few friends that I wouldn't bring anyway near my mums house and I don't

Strange, if they are not people that I would happily introduce to my parents then they are not the kind of people I want as friends

 

[Racks]

Strange, if they are not people that I would happily introduce to my parents then they are not the kind of people I want as friends

I use the Word "friends" loosely... Not Good friends... Not Best friends... People I see out in the pubs and talk to...
I have a ton of friends... Some are strange... Some like to get drunk... And just some are the kind I'd introduce to my parents

 

[Pumpkin]

I use the Word "friends" loosely... Not Good friends... Not Best friends... People I see out in the pubs and talk to...
I have a ton of friends... Some are strange... Some like to get drunk... And just some are the kind I'd introduce to my parents

aaaah ok, gotcha

 

[pinkporridge]

he was andys dads friend before andys. He is pushing 60, gay, woman hater! and hes a jerk on top of that. He is the kind of guy who has an opinion on everything. once told me i shouldnt use an umbrella unless i have a slave to carry it for me. i mean really dude! its an umbrella!

 

[hart]

I have a variety of friends-many who would definitely not gel with others of my friends. But though I didn't always treat my own mom with respect in my late teens early twenties I would NOT have tolerated any others not doing so. I'm glad you didn't either.

 

[pinkporridge]

Haha he phoned Andy to appogise for being a douche! We will see if he can control him self in future! I will have no qualms about ripping him a new one if he does it again!

 

[JanieDough]

I can't believe Andy's mom is letting this douche on her policy.

Good for you for standing up for her, but she needs to grow a set.

 

[Natasha]

I was gonna ask the same thing Zorak did. He might have to be more forceful in the future b/c a leopard doesn't change his spots and I guarantee the guy will act like that again.

 

[skyblue]

he's always buying andy stuff,and he's gay........guess what he wants