Officially- marriage over

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Veronica

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As most of yall know, me and joe have been seperated for a month. Well, today I am packing his stuff so he can take it to his new place. The hurt seems to be there all over again. He doesnt want to work out anything. So , I guess I just need to wait around for the divorce papers.....
 
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I'm very sorry that you have to go through this. It's a very hard road to have to travel, but if you look around, you will see that we are walking with you, to help support you through your tough times. I see at least a dozen people here that will do anything they can to help you through this, that includes me.

Even though this is sure to be a bad storm for you to weather, the skies will clear for you, just give it time. They always clear.
 

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V i know you dont know me as much as you know others on here, but im here with everyone else if you need to vent. Im really sorry that you are going through this right now, but youre strong
 

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^ what he said
I've tried to be supportive and I hoped maybe things would work out. Keep your chin up, you still have a lot to be thankful for.
 

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I'm sorry to hear whats happened these last few weeks and I would give you much more support if I didn't live so far away. I'm here for you in cyberspace if you need a chat anyway as well as so many people on here. Its a painful process but what dosen't kill you can only make you stronger and I hope the emotional wounds start to heal. Big cyberhug for you!:smiley31: :smiley31: :smiley31:
 

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Girl my heart hurts for you. :( I just dont understand how he could NOT want to be with you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. From things I have heard, you are a great mommy and you are always thinking of others before yourself. And from things Heather has said, you are a great cook too.
How could any man not want that? Am I right guys?
I have a feeling that men will be crawling at your feet once you are ready.
 

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Im so sorry v. I cant believe he would give up someone as thoughtful...caring...wonderful as you. You are a beautiful person inside and out...he will live to regret this choice. Im here for you...always *hugs*
 

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Girl my heart hurts for you. :( I just dont understand how he could NOT want to be with you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. From things I have heard, you are a great mommy and you are always thinking of others before yourself. And from things Heather has said, you are a great cook too.
How could any man not want that? Am I right guys?
I have a feeling that men will be crawling at your feet once you are ready.

what?

*checks distance*

a cook, great mother, and a hot lady?

damn... :eek
 

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Allot of people do not realize what they are blessed with. I hope you find your center V. Remember, when a chapter of your life comes to an end. It means that another chapter is about to begin. God bless you girl!
 

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Ah, sorry to hear that V.

I am sure things will work out better for you in the end though.

I think that when one partner hasn't wanted to know for a while, it only drags us down and holds us back from how we want to be and our needs and what we want to do. Think of all you will achieve without being held back.

Good luck and take care. :)
 

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I'm sorry to hear your marriage has ended and the loss of all the hopes, dreams, and expectations that marriage represented. I hope you have plenty of support around you to help you deal with the hurt, grief, and stress. Take care of yourself, you will overcome the doubts, worries and hurt with the passing of time. Learn and grow with an eye on the future. The best of luck for you and your family. :)
 

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thanks again everyone.

I am really trying to deal with this, but it hurts so bad.. I will be ok soon, i hope.
 

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Sorry Vs. You know my number if you just want to rant about anything in general to someone.

Just know there is a bright side out there somewhere, I hope you'll strive to find it again.
 

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much love to you Veronica. We love you, and our love won't disappear or get up and walk away from you one day. It may not be the same, but you will grow and you will change and you will learn. Every day is a new day, and this is the beginning of the rest of your life. He might not be there to share it with you, and I know right now that hurts like hell, but in time you will learn to appreciate things without him, and who knows you might find someone better someday. I know you are a wonderful powerful woman and most men would give their left testicle to get a chance with you. We are all here anytime you need to vent about anything. Don't feel like you are being a burden on anyone, because you are not. We want you to come to us when you are having problems because we care. I love you!!!
 

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Oh V, I am so sorry to hear that! I really hope that your wounds heal sooner than later. As everyone else has already said... we are here for you.

Thinking of you, and wishing you strength in this very difficult time!
 
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