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Francis

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Growing older by no means changes your childhood traits and makes you either mature or grown up.. :D

People stay child like in many ways ( we all do ) and sometimes, much like I do with my brother, they just must be avoided as long as they continue..

Giving them little chances and then taking you out of the stress zone is probably the best thing that you can personally do to yourself..
 

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Ive tried.. then they thnk Im mad at them and they wont STOP calling. :(


sky.. we kindof look alike. Ill post pictures.

Call block..

I bough a call blocker for my home phone that cost me $25.00 and was the best investment.. When people try to be sneaky and use other locations to call from I block those as well.. Works fantastic..
 

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When they call, tell them straight off no bitching or you'll hang up on them....and DO IT!

They'll soon get the hint when they keep hearing a dial tone as soon as the bitching starts
 
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Veronica,

I concur with cam elle toe. Make it clear. Family is a privilege, not a right. Let them no that.

If nothing else works, I suggest " Forgive thy enemies, nothing annoys them more".


Regards,
Richard.

P.S: I hope You have a healthy and safe delivery.
 

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I just wrote this to my sister.. The one that KEEPS calling me bitching at me about Ginger! She did it again last night. then she hung up on me.. called me again this morning and this time she yells at me because I didnt tell ginger to quit being mean to her!!!

Val, You know I love you. The reason I dont want to be involved in this is because I am PREGNANT and Im high risk! If I get too stressed over YOU and GINGER, I COULD LOSE MY BABY! I dont understand why you dont understand that. Ive already lost 2 in the last year! When you can understand that and stop being self centered, then call me! Im done with you calling me and bitching me out because of GINGER! im not ginger- I am veronica! I dont treat you like shit like other people do. I dont understand why you cant turn to the people that live closest to you there and hang with them. You have no need for ginger. Again, LOVE YOU Brat!!! Now sing "ive got a lovely bunch of coconuts" You know that song is funny!

Now I know that message is gonna cause a STIR in our family, but frankly, i dont give a shit anymore.
 

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I just wrote this to my sister.. The one that KEEPS calling me bitching at me about Ginger! She did it again last night. then she hung up on me.. called me again this morning and this time she yells at me because I didnt tell ginger to quit being mean to her!!!

Now I know that message is gonna cause a STIR in our family, but frankly, i dont give a shit anymore.


good for you!!! :clap:clap
 
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Veronica,

It was a very sophisticated one, and if she has indeed reached what they call maturity, she will understand. Good confrontation. I'm sorry about Your last two. I didn't know....


Regards,
Take Care,
Richard.
 

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Being someone who also has a sister who feels the need to cause drama (because she is a self centered, nasty witch who has the need to tear my life and how i live it to shreds), who just recently caused a HUGE thing, involving my parents (hello, we're both in our THIRTIES), and got me so upset & stressed(which is NOT good with my current health)....the best advice i can give you (which i hope you don't mind, beings as i dont come around much but i can sympathize with how you feel) is to take care of YOU first right now, explain to the sisters who are involving you in the drama that you just can't be part of it, and you refuse to be, and then, just keep your distance for awhile. Or have the hubs deal with them if they don't get it.

I hope it all settles down. Unfortunately in my situation, i no longer wish to speak to my sister, for ANY reason. She just didn't get it.

That's what i've had to do at this point, kinda sucks, but, you gotta just take care of you first right now.
 

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I just wrote this to my sister.. The one that KEEPS calling me bitching at me about Ginger! She did it again last night. then she hung up on me.. called me again this morning and this time she yells at me because I didnt tell ginger to quit being mean to her!!!



Now I know that message is gonna cause a STIR in our family, but frankly, i dont give a shit anymore.


Well done.:clap
 
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