Mrs Behavin
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Can men have mid-life crisis' as early as the age of 30? :confused
Mid-life crisis
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What's happening. Speak to the expert. I swear I have to be after goign thru that mess. This part hits home. One minute things seem great...and the next minute, you're not even talking anymore.
Yea. It's so like that. And he doesn't even want to let you go. He's too selfish to think of YOU, and tell you, "I think I'm going through something and may need some time." No, he just strings you along, because he needs that added security. It's tough.
i should think its possible,theyre very fragile little dears are men.
you know how they are,they need bigging up,and soothing....oh darling ofcourse you have abetter body than vin deisal.....and you really do have the largest penis ive ever seen...that sort of thing
and then they go a bit funny and start skydiving and wanting fast cars ...i bought mine a microlight lesson andflight one year for crimbo....kept him quiet and purring for about sixmonths.
you know how they are,they need bigging up,and soothing....oh darling ofcourse you have abetter body than vin deisal.....and you really do have the largest penis ive ever seen...that sort of thing
and then they go a bit funny and start skydiving and wanting fast cars ...i bought mine a microlight lesson andflight one year for crimbo....kept him quiet and purring for about sixmonths.
I just let him go and moved out for 8 months. It was shit at first and I cried a lot, but then I realized that you can't change someone's emotions. You have to just let him go through it. The more you badger him, the more he gets stupid and confused.
and shit, it was great, because during that time that I was moved out, I discovered I was really compatible with tequila.
Peter Parka
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Well I'm 32 and I've never experienced this. Just my personal experience though, not saying it dosent happen.
COOL_BREEZE2
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We have a Winner!
Thank you.
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Thank you.
See?...Doesn't take much to make us happy.
Mrs Behavin
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Reason I asked is because I wonder if that is what my husband is going thru :dunno
He keeps telling me over the past year or so that he wants us to "be done" and then each time by the next day he is fine with me.
He has given me numerous reasons why he wants us to be done. Lets see it started out with, because Im basically not a "Martha Stewart" and dont clean and cook like her, so I worked on that and changed. Next it was because Im not independent enough, so Ive been working on that. And now this last time (before Christmas) its because of all the little annoying things I do that bother him.
We havent even had sex in a year (this month its been a year). He very rarely kisses me anymore. Some days he is just the nicest guy to me, asking me if I want to go places with him, and then by the next day he acts like he is grossed out by me. He doesnt care if he says things that hurt my feelings sometimes.
Then last week I found something that he is doing behind my back that just totally blew me away and has broken my heart to the extreme. I dont think its right for me to say here what it is. He doesnt know that I know.
I know I deserve to be treated better than how he is treating me but I dont want to jump all over him and nag him about things if he is going thru such a thing as mid-life crisis. But Im sick and tired of putting up with all this. All I want is for "us" to be like we use to be.
He keeps telling me over the past year or so that he wants us to "be done" and then each time by the next day he is fine with me.
He has given me numerous reasons why he wants us to be done. Lets see it started out with, because Im basically not a "Martha Stewart" and dont clean and cook like her, so I worked on that and changed. Next it was because Im not independent enough, so Ive been working on that. And now this last time (before Christmas) its because of all the little annoying things I do that bother him.
We havent even had sex in a year (this month its been a year). He very rarely kisses me anymore. Some days he is just the nicest guy to me, asking me if I want to go places with him, and then by the next day he acts like he is grossed out by me. He doesnt care if he says things that hurt my feelings sometimes.
Then last week I found something that he is doing behind my back that just totally blew me away and has broken my heart to the extreme. I dont think its right for me to say here what it is. He doesnt know that I know.
I know I deserve to be treated better than how he is treating me but I dont want to jump all over him and nag him about things if he is going thru such a thing as mid-life crisis. But Im sick and tired of putting up with all this. All I want is for "us" to be like we use to be.
Peter Parka
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I could tell you what I think and I think you'd know what I'd say and I don't think you'd like it but you know it!
COOL_BREEZE2
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Amy, have ya'll been going to see a marriage counselor or other professional about this?
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