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Mrs Behavin

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M daughters teacher passed away today. She had cancer of the mouth and it just took over her. Anyways, my daughter is really tore up about it and cant stop crying. She is so tender hearted as it is already. How can I help her deal with this. Is there anything I can say or do to try to ease her mind about it?
 
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Damn that sucks. i always like my teachers i had for the most part. i dont know how i would handle it if i lost a teacher durring the school year.

im not exactly sure what you can say to her with her being pretty young.

slomo is pretty good with this stuff.
 

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give her a few days to herself, then try toget her to talk about the teacher in ways that make her remember her teacher...

good memories always help. also, tell her that she should be happy that she got to spend the time she did with her teacher. teachers can be big for inspirations, and all that.
 

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sorry to hear about that...just give her some time and maybe spend some extra time with her or something to try and keep her mind off of it.
 

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the best thing to do in my opinion is to allow her the opportunity to have fun. Laughter is the best cure for what bothers the mind in most cases.
 

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time does heal, maybe assist her in some sort of rememberance or have her write down her feelings or make a list of good memories?
 

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thats sad... kids are usually so kind hearted at that age, so its gotta be tough... ya know-- i would tell her you are obviously there if she wants to talk about it, but sometimes thats get them more upset-- they dont comprehend talking through problems like we do.. so give her some extra fun time.. thats really all you can do for her unfortunately :dunno
 

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She said that Monday in her class, they talked about it and the kids got to talk about some of the good things they remember about her. She wanted to go to the funeral Sunday but I was kinda hesitant. She is doing better. She still talks about it though. I think talking helps her understand it better.
 

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Oh no that could be a hard nut yo crack.But all the same life must always go on. Just tell her that the teacher is in a better place where's no longer pains
 

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Losing someone close is incredibly hard. It leaves a void that can feel overwhelming. I believe it’s important to allow yourself to grieve and take time to process those emotions. Support from friends, family, or a therapist can help, but healing takes its own time.
 

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Coping with the loss of someone close involves acknowledging the grief, allowing yourself to feel emotions. Sorry about this and seek support.
 

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I recently lost my uncle (my father's cousin). I wasn't very close but I met him just few weeks ago and had a really good chit chat. His death has come as a shock for me. he was just 51 years old
 
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