Loosing your virginity

[sexy.time]

Haha this thread idea just popped in my head cuz last night my friend said it was funny that he was watching dirty dancing when it happened to him. *props to Patrick Swayze*

I wasn't even watching a good movie. It was Road Trip, although its funny as hell, its not really the kind of movie that puts you in the mood hey?

What was your movie, or song if you can remember. or was it in some crazy random place?

 

[drb]

lost mine in a church when i was 13....but the first record i ever listened to while fucking was Genatorturers 120 of Sodom

 

[NightWarrior]

I think there was some cheesy Lionel Richie song playing on the radio. I think it was all over before the first chorus. (Kidding, maybe 2nd)

 

[Jersey]

there was no movie or music playing.. just in my bedroom

 

[NightWarrior]

lost mine in a church when i was 13....but the first record i ever listened to while fucking was Genatorturers 120 of Sodom

This has got to be the oddest place ever and so young.

 

[sexy.time]

LMAO, hey i cant say my first lasted much longer. *shakes head*
and WHAT!!?? in a church when your 13 Beth? thats pretty bad. lol

 

[drb]

yup yup, if i could go back i'd make smarter decisions but i have no regrets. besides i was out to destroy the world and myself at the time so it seemed like a good idea at the time.

 

[NightWarrior]

yup yup, if i could go back i'd make smarter decisions but i have no regrets. besides i was out to destroy the world and myself at the time so it seemed like a good idea at the time.

Well, glad to hear your on the right track

 

[Kat]

*chooses not to remember*

 

[GraceAbounds]

Unfortunately I didn't have a choice as to when I lost my virginity, as that was forced on me.

The first time that I actually chose to have sex was when I was 16 and I was very much in love or so I thought.

Sex took the focus off of so many more important things in my life that I needed to be learning and developing within myself. Many times I was not focused on the things that mattered most because I was too busy partying and being concerned with how I looked and sexin' it up so to speak. My life was not squared away, nor was I focused on my goals. I was not mentally mature even though I thought I was. I did not develop FULL relationships with the person I chose to sleep with even though at the time I thought I had. Throwing sex in the mix made me feel like I was grown up and had an adult relationship, when what we had was far from it. Throwing sex in the mix when I was not mentally mature, not focused on my goals, not totally sure of who I was - didn't work for me. It just prolonged the growing that I needed to do in life.

If I had to do it all over again, I would have waited until I was married as God intended it. Too many times it is in hindsight that I see He was right as always and I just kick myself. But He makes everything work out for good whether I understand it or not. So things happened as they happened and I am where I am and am just fine with it.

 

[GuesSAngel]

wow grace, i'm sorry to hear about the first part...

 

[GuesSAngel]

i lost mine when I was 18, it was new years eve. haha it was planned b/c I knew I wanted to lose my virginity to my friend...that way I knew I wouldn't get hurt in the end...and I def. didn't want to be in love when I lost it. I just wanted to be comfortable with the person and experience it like that.

It worked out perfectly for me. I wasn't hurt, and I don't regret it.

 

[Maritxu]

Grace, I think that the real first time is when you made love with someone you love and you really wanted it.

That being said. I was 17 and so in love... was one of the most magical nights of my life and still makes me smile to remember it.

 

[Suzie]

Im proud to say I lost mine when i was 19 with whom is now my husband.

 

[groundpounder]

lost mine in a church when i was 13....but the first record i ever listened to while fucking was Genatorturers 120 of Sodom

seems like a one-way ticket to hell right there!! LOL!!!

But seriously, if you get to hell before I do, guard the gate for me, will ya?! I'll do the same if I make it there first!

 

[groundpounder]

And I lost mine at 13 playing "7 minutes," then didn't get laid by anyone other than the four sisters down on Thumb Street until I was 17.

Now, the one at 13 was fast fast fast. The one when I was 17?! First nut, quick. Second, maybe five minutes. THIRD (all without missing a stroke) took about 30 minutes. The girl, who was like three years older than me (a lifetime at the time) was like, "What. The. Fuck." She didn't know I was just a noob and would nut when the wind blew. But the word got out (especially after I went down on her on our second date) and the legend was born. LOL!!

 

[Suzie]

And I lost mine at 13 playing "7 minutes," then didn't get laid by anyone other than the four sisters down on Thumb Street until I was 17.

 

[ouachiski]

I was reading a math book tutoring a girl in college algebra....I was 21(yes a late bloomer) and it cought me so off guard. I got a good slap afterwards cause mine was a lott like GP's and she called me a liar for telling her I was a virgin. I still have a scar on my wrist to remember it by. I now know not to do that position on carpet due to hellacious rugg burns

 

[Tattva]

music wise, i remember one time 'This is Hardcore' by Pulp was playing, i thought it was quite ironic, i think Jackie has put it on deliberately.

lost mine at 15 to an ex, it wasn't particularly passionate or as special as perhaps something like this should be but iv never really been too bothered about that, sex is sex, good sex (i.e. right atmosphere, person and feelings for the other person) is something completely different and i haven't ever been close enough in a relationship to experience that yet, concentrating on my education, i don't intend to feel that way about anyone at the moment either

 

[Reaver]

Mine was right before my 17th birthday, so almost two years ago. It was my b-day present from my now ex-girlfriend she was pretty shy, so I didn't have any real expectations to meet... It only lasted around 10-12 minutes, if I remember correctly... Now my second girlfriend, she would just say "let's have sex" at random times... that was a fun few months.