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[Lovin_Scooby]

hey anyone needs advice ill give what i can.

 

[bass_man1989]

Alright, I'll give this a shot...
I've been seeing this girl I've known for some time and I think we're kinda in that grey area of the relationship. Too soon to say we're dating, to far to say just friends. I was kinda wondering how I could progress this, or even just see if she's interested in progressing the relationship, because I think she might be. Thanks in advance.

 

[Lovin_Scooby]

well at this point i would just talk to her about it. if she want to move ahead then its god and if for now she wants to stay where you are then thats good too at least you talked about it.it never hurts to just talk

 

[bass_man1989]

Yeah, I thought so, it's something I've been wanting to get off my chest for some time now. Unfortuantly she lives a bit too far away to run over there every time I need to say something, and this isn't something I want to talk about over the phone. Hopefully I'll see her this weekend and I'll be able to spill my heart.

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

Don't "spill your heart". That will make you pretty vulnerable to her, and may give her the idea that she's "got it in the bag". Never wear your heart on your sleeve. Talk casually about it but don't get on one knee or do something over the top...it might make her uncomfortable. True, she may be waiting for you to make a move, but also consider that she might have other plans.

 

[elluko]

Umm... mine's kind of personal, can I private message you?

 

[Lovin_Scooby]

yeah you can

 

[trickin_tink]

ok...well i have a problem with my boyfriend.

Well his family is forcing him to move out of state, i really like him, i think it might even be love, what do i do? do i stay with him or do i let him move on.

 

[Lovin_Scooby]

well you talk to him. see if there is anyway he can stay. if you think it is love stay with him. you will both just have to try realy hard to make it work. whenever you can go see him have him come see you. things like that

 

[trickin_tink]

.....he's moving to the east coast, i live on the west coast....idk, he's said that he wants to move but he doesn't want to lose me. he says i'm his life. that just adds to my stress level...

 

[Lovin_Scooby]

well try not to let it stress you out too much. this is kinda up to you on what to do now because its your choice in the end that you have to handle. So i wish you the best of luck and think it over long and hard.

 

[trickin_tink]

ok, thanks

 

[bass_man1989]

Don't "spill your heart". That will make you pretty vulnerable to her, and may give her the idea that she's "got it in the bag". Never wear your heart on your sleeve. Talk casually about it but don't get on one knee or do something over the top...it might make her uncomfortable. True, she may be waiting for you to make a move, but also consider that she might have other plans.

No, I wasn't actually going to spill my heart, I was just looking for a phrase to use. I've taken this all into consideration, but thanks for the help (trying not to sound un-grateful.)

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

No, I wasn't actually going to spill my heart, I was just looking for a phrase to use. I've taken this all into consideration, but thanks for the help (trying not to sound un-grateful.)

no prob, rereading that I can see that you used it as just a phrase, when i took it in a more literal sense.

 

[Lovin_Scooby]

looks like she helped you more than i did. lol. well i hope you got the advice you were looking for.

 

[GuesSAngel]

ok...well i have a problem with my boyfriend.

Well his family is forcing him to move out of state, i really like him, i think it might even be love, what do i do? do i stay with him or do i let him move on.

I would let him move on. You don't want to hold him back and then things not work out where he would then blame you. You're young, you have so many years ahead of you to find love.