Its Over

[lemon]

amy... all i can say is i am sorry to hear this...

 

[TheOriginalJames]

I keep thinking about all the things we have done and been thru together. We were so good together.
I can easily forgive someone but I cant forget and the things he said to me yesterday were such hurtful words.
He came home last night but he is not talking to me whatsoever. He was looking in the phone book this morning before he left for work at divorce attorneys.
I just cant imagine having christmas or birthdays, etc w/o him in it.

Are you fucking serious? Because you didn't do all the things he could have done?

Sorry Amy, but he's nothing more than a fucking prick.

 

[Veronica]

Amy, Im sorry to hear about this. I know things are rough. If you need to talk, call me. Ill send you my phone number.

I dont know what to say. I hate that you are going through this. You are a good person!

 

[SloMoFo]

Your husband sounds like a piece of shit, why would anyone go off on someone for the house not being clean? Who the fuck cares if it gets messy sometimes? It happens, you live in a house, it gets messy. You say he always goes off riding 4 wheelers why can't he clean the house sometimes? It's not just the woman's job you know.

He is obviously not the same person you married, you deserve so much better. Really you do. Lord help any man that would talk to me the way he did to you.

I remember in your post awhile back where you even brought up counseling, and he didn't want any part of it. You have made attempts to have the relationship saved, he didn't. His pride got in the way. As far as im concerned he does need someone to help tell him what to do because he may be a grown man but he sure acts like a fucking child.

 

[lemon]

Your husband sounds like a piece of shit, why would anyone go off on someone for the house not being clean? Who the fuck cares if it gets messy sometimes? It happens, you live in a house, it gets messy. You say he always goes off riding 4 wheelers why can't he clean the house sometimes? It's not just the woman's job you know.

He is obviously not the same person you married, you deserve so much better. Really you do. Lord help any man that would talk to me the way he did to you.

I remember in your post awhile back where you even brought up counseling, and he didn't want any part of it. You have made attempts to have the relationship saved, he didn't. His pride got in the way. As far as im concerned he does need someone to help tell him what to do because he may be a grown man but he sure acts like a fucking child.

remembers this for future references

 

[horseshoeing]

You two have to try to work things out. Think of the kids.

 

[andcuriouser]

You two have to try to work things out. Think of the kids.

Hardly. DON'T just think of the kids. If anything, that could make everyone miserable. I would rather have my parents divorced than fighting all the time. My parents have stayed together for the kids since my birth, and if anything, they would be so much happier if they just split. I think most kids would rather have divorced parents than parents who fight all the time and subject their kids to scenes like the one your hubby pulled.

Kids do play a part in splits, but don't stay together for the kids. The only thing that'll result in is misery and resentment, on everyone's part: you, your hubby, and the kids.

I don't think he sounds like he wants to work things out, regardless. You're better off, Amy. Really.

 

[R.A.T. Army]

Who the fuck throws trash cans! Don't take that shit, save yourself not the marriage.

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[White2000GT]

Hardly. DON'T just think of the kids. If anything, that could make everyone miserable. I would rather have my parents divorced than fighting all the time. My parents have stayed together for the kids since my birth, and if anything, they would be so much happier if they just split. I think most kids would rather have divorced parents than parents who fight all the time and subject their kids to scenes like the one your hubby pulled.

Kids do play a part in splits, but don't stay together for the kids. The only thing that'll result in is misery and resentment, on everyone's part: you, your hubby, and the kids.

I don't think he sounds like he wants to work things out, regardless. You're better off, Amy. Really.

Well said Leland.

 

[SilentEyz]

Mrs,

Very sorry to hear this is happening to you, There is really nothing I can say or would even attempt to say that could make what you are having to deal with right now any better or easier.

Word's of comfort are just words, Though meant with the best of intentions. It seems as though you have many friends on here to Support you, That is a blessing on your part, Times such as yours, Friends can be the best escape, And having a shoulder healthy for healing.

Hopefully whatever road your Situation takes, The best of you still comes out of it.