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Oh sorry, for some reason I thought I'd read somewhere else that he drinks. I know what you mean about the weakness that comes from drinking. That's why I stopped. It's too easy for me to get lost in that good feeling and start thinking about how much better I could feel if I could move up to something else. I've worked hard to stay clean. If you think even for a MOMENT that the alcohol will weaken your resolve to stay clean, DON'T DRINK.
 
I think maybe I should set a goal for myself. Like 3 years. Maybe I won't take a sip of anything for 3 years. Which works out nicely because in 3 years i plan on being pregnant again, and so that's another 9 mos on top of that...and then i might as well add another 3 years on top of it, because i don't want to drink with small baby :D LOL
 
I think maybe I should set a goal for myself. Like 3 years. Maybe I won't take a sip of anything for 3 years. Which works out nicely because in 3 years i plan on being pregnant again, and so that's another 9 mos on top of that...and then i might as well add another 3 years on top of it, because i don't want to drink with small baby :D LOL


Personally...I think you way over analyze...anyone ever told you that:D
 
I was against it when I was younger. My dad drank way too much and I hated to be around him because of it. I am an occasional drinker at best. 3, maybe 4 times a year I have a drink and only when the situation is such as a New Years Party or the like.
 
I gave up drinking for a year once. Everyone was getting on by back and telling me I was an alcoholic so I did it to shut them up.
Now I don't give a toss what people think.
Some people still tell me I have a drink problem but I dont think so because I really like it.:D
 
Most parents that I know, myself included, don't normally drink while their kids are at home .. they wait to "drink" when the kids go to grandma's for the evening.

That's exactly why Alicia and I don't get to drink but a couple of times a month at best...

Except Thursday nights when we play poker... while the youngen is being watched, we each have a Corona while playing... But it's out of our system a couple of hours later when we pick him up. So does that really count?
 
SRC and Tim, i like both of your views. Unfortunately, at this point, I don't see my kid being babysat very much. Maybe by one of my sisters, but that's it. I really don't see me leaving my kid at my parents overnight or anything until they are MUCH older. Mostly because I don't 100% trust them right now, but that's another story and it could change. Also they are kind of far away, about 45-50 mins away from my house.
 
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