Infidelity

[Maritxu]

She wasn't even the same person that I married anyway. She was so in love with this other guy that she met while I was deployed that she even asked me not to tell him that she and I were still having sex. How shitty is that? She felt guilty about having sex with me, still her husband by law, while her "boyfriend" was then deployed.

Very shitty of her. It's crazy.

 

[White2000GT]

Yep. Good riddance I say.

 

[Maritxu]

Did you still love her?

 

[White2000GT]

I did. But now, any love that I had for her is gone. I have no feelings for her at all. The only relationship we have together now is as parents. And even that is rocky at times.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I did. But now, any love that I had for her is gone. I have no feelings for her at all. The only relationship we have together now is as parents. And even that is rocky at times.

How many kids do yall have?

 

[White2000GT]

Three. Three wonderful, beautiful kids.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

See I got 3 kids too. But I have always had the fear that if I got divorced, no man is gonna want to be with a woman who has 3 kids.

 

[White2000GT]

Zach - 8


Haley - 7


Emilie - 5

 

[White2000GT]

See I got 3 kids too. But I have always had the fear that if I got divorced, no man is gonna want to be with a woman who has 3 kids.

I thought the same thing about my girlfriend. I was scared to tell her about my kids at first because I thought it would scare her away. But, I didn't want to keep it from her and I knew she would accept me with or without kids. And, luckily for me, she did.

 

[Maritxu]

Zach - 8


Haley - 7


Emilie - 5

WOW! probably they are the most beautiful kids I've ever seen in my life. You must be a proud dad!

 

[Maritxu]

I thought the same thing about my girlfriend. I was scared to tell her about my kids at first because I thought it would scare her away. But, I didn't want to keep it from her and I knew she would accept me with or without kids. And, luckily for me, she did.

I always thougth that I'd never be with a man with kids, but I think now thay I am more mature, it is not important at all. If you really love the person you will also love the children.

 

[White2000GT]

WOW! probably they are the most beautiful kids I've ever seen in my life. You must be a proud dad!

Thank you! And yes, I am a very proud dad. Those pictures are more than a year old. I have more recent ones, but they are on my computer at home.

 

[Darkstar]

I have a son, and if it came down to someone changing their mind about me because I already have a child, then fuck 'em. My son is the center of my universe, and if you cant handle that, then its your loss.

 

[Maritxu]

yeah fuck 'em!

 

[Veronica]

I guess it depends on the person.

What ever you wouldnt want your partner to do, you shouldnt do. Kissing, extreme flirting, ect is cheating to me. It just depends.

 

[Maritxu]

So maybe this is something a couple should talk about, put the limits together or something, without asuming anything

 

[White2000GT]

YES!!! Communicating with each other is soooooooo important. I can't stress that enough.

 

[Veronica]

dang, i wish i would of read the rest of the thread before posting after the first page. lol

White is a handsome man, so naturally he would have good looking kids.

 

[White2000GT]

dang, i wish i would of read the rest of the thread before posting after the first page. lol

White is a handsome man, so naturally he would have good looking kids.

Man.... I'm blushing now! Thanks Veronica, I'm glad you think that. I do have to admit, I make beautiful babies!

 

[Maritxu]

White is a handsome man, so naturally he would have good looking kids.

You couldn't be more right!