Im worried about my friend...

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So I slept over at my friends house this weekend... and I have to say I was pretty scared when she invited me! She is a mexican, but, she is a good student and an ok friend.... but she also lives in the bad side of town and my other friend told me that her parents have "Anger Issues" I have to say it was an ok weekend, I missed school today, lol I didnt have any clean pants, and appperently a lot of stuff happened at school, the reason why I tell you this is because they seemed like a normal family... until what happened today...

This morning her mom.... kind of went crazy (Her parents are going thru a divorce) she took their protection gun and threatened to shoot herself. Then she took my friends cell phone and threw it into the toilet, and told her that she was going to send her back to mexico. She left and went to the bus to go to school and was afraid to go home today, she was borrowing other people's phones and calling friends and family trying to find a place to go after school.

This was all told to me from my other friend so I'm not sure how straight it is. All I know is that she was scared to go home and she didn't have her phone, so I have no way of contacting her to see if she is alright. I'm hoping she is at school tommorow or at least still in the country... :unsure:
 
U had no clean pants? I know your a girl but fuck it id of worn something from the day before. Thats no reason to stay home from school LOL.

Oh and your friends mom is loco in teh cabasa.
 
No see I thought I had clean pants so I put all my dirty ones in the wash. Then I realized that the pants hanging up in my closet were my moms, which are like 20 sizes to big. The dirty pants were wet and covered in soap and stuff so I couldn't where them... so I didn't have any wearable pants.
 
I have two best friends and I heard it from my other best friend who came over to study with me last night. I'm going to get the full sotry from the actual person today... I do know that her parents were going thru a divorce, and when I was over at her house I found a hole in the wall that looked like a punch...
 
Okay, so I got the story from her.... her Dad was getting angry/violent with her mom so she told her to call the police, but, it wouldn't be his first offense and they would of put him in jail for a long time. So she refused, and then her mom threatened to kill herself because her daughter loved her step-father more then her. I'm not rreally sure what happened after that, but she isnt allowed to contact her dad because her mom said she would send her to mexico if she did.... My mom called the school counselor this morning and asked them to check it out and make sure she was ok.
 
Dana said:
U had no clean pants? I know your a girl but fuck it id of worn something from the day before. Thats no reason to stay home from school LOL.

Oh and your friends mom is loco in teh cabasa.
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Ha, I've used that excuse before. It actually works to, my mom let me stay home. The only catch was I had to do the laundry. Fair price to pay to skip school :D

And I'm with Dana, the mom sounds pretty loco.
 
AbriannaPeto said:
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Yeah. Don't know how I missed it before.

That must have been an awkward situation for you over there tho.
Hope things work out for your friend.
You should still try to give her some support tho don't mind what you said before bout her not keeping a secret. She's going through a rough time. If was you you would have appreciated it. Keep that in mind.
 
AbriannaPeto said:
Okay, so I got the story from her.... her Dad was getting angry/violent with her mom so she told her to call the police, but, it wouldn't be his first offense and they would of put him in jail for a long time. So she refused, and then her mom threatened to kill herself because her daughter loved her step-father more then her. I'm not rreally sure what happened after that, but she isnt allowed to contact her dad because her mom said she would send her to mexico if she did.... My mom called the school counselor this morning and asked them to check it out and make sure she was ok.
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I'm really pleased to hear that your mum has done that and good for her too. When children are encased in this kind of potential harmful situation (re the gun thing her mother did), it could end up being somewhat more lethal than the initial rows they are having there.

It's so sad to hear this kind of situation, about her and other people.

She probably finds it hard to know what trust is anymore, hence may be part to do with how she is, as you say she's not discreet - unfortunately there are too many like that who are just that way for selfish reasons, but for her, her life is a constant battle by the sound of things.

If you can support her at school at least (definately not a good thing to go to her house anymore), I'm sure she would appreciate that.

If you feel she can't keep things to herself, maybe just not let her know too many things. her mind's probably in such a whirl that she forgets what she should and shouldn't be saying or something.

Sounds like her mother is using her as a pawn too, just for liking her stepfather.

She really needs to be out of there, especially as he is violent also, as you mentioned.

You are also too young to take on too much, but she may just feel happy enough to know you are there to talk to as teenagers do.

Hope it all resolves one way or the other. :(
 
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