I'm too embarrassed n I don't know how to say it I've avoided it for a while

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When I was last on this site I was all so happy and scared about becoming a mum and I posted about it and im greatfull for the advice and the nice words you said to me, I ended up loseing the baby and Ive not posted on this site for a while because Ive avoided It i guess I didn't want to have the reminder of it and get upset again about it, I just wanted to say yer im sorry I havn't had the guts to admit this but its hard, also I was wondering i one of the mods or admin would take my acount off this site if possible as I never use it and don't see myself doing so im sorry again but it seems the best thing to do and I hardly write decent threads so Im logging off I know a few people have me on fb so can you contact me on there if possible thanks and im sorry again
 
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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

you have nothing to apologise to us about hun, you have had a tragic time, and my wholehearted condolences go out to you

i hope when you find the strength you can slowly get back to posting more, until then take care
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

Don't be embarrassed. I'm sorry to hear of your loss and there is no need to apologise, these things happen
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

Back when you posted about the upcoming event, you were full of hopes and dreams for the little one. You were planning on raising another human being. The unfortold and terrible circumstances prevented your dreams from becoming reality. You are suffering a loss that cannot be understood, save for another mother who has walked in your shoes. Embarrassing? Perhaps, but I doubt you'll find a more supportive group of people who will listen to you than those who log into this site. Please, don't leave us. Rather, lean on us. We may not know how you feel, but, we do know that you feel and we'll help you through these times.
Doesn't have to happen today, tomorrow, or next week. Let it happen when it will. Til then, please, rethink your request to be removed from here.
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

Don't feel bad it happens. Me and my wife went though this before as well. Telling everyone and loosing the pregnancy within a week of letting everyone know. If your going to close your account fine. Just I do not see why you need to. Maybe getting some comfort from a third party might help you right now. Remember it is the internet. Don't let anyone get to you.
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

Back when you posted about the upcoming event, you were full of hopes and dreams for the little one. You were planning on raising another human being. The unfortold and terrible circumstances prevented your dreams from becoming reality. You are suffering a loss that cannot be understood, save for another mother who has walked in your shoes. Embarrassing? Perhaps, but I doubt you'll find a more supportive group of people who will listen to you than those who log into this site. Please, don't leave us. Rather, lean on us. We may not know how you feel, but, we do know that you feel and we'll help you through these times.
Doesn't have to happen today, tomorrow, or next week. Let it happen when it will. Til then, please, rethink your request to be removed from here.

very well said.:)
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

Nothing to apologise for. There are some good people here many can offer words of encouragement if you hang around.
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

I already responded to your PM, but I am about to place the ban on your account per your request. You have nothing to be embarrassed about and I hope that you are speaking to someone to help you deal w/ your loss. *hugs*
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

Sorry for your loss but never give up..
 

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Re: Im to embarrased n I don't no hows to say it ive avoid it for a while

:( Sorry to hear you are going through this
 
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