I get it my apartment is a dump. I'm a bachelor and a procrastinator but my cousin has a tendency to show up unannouced to help me fucking "clean" my apartment. I get woken up by my phone going off saying my cousin was at my moms store trying to get in to help me clean my apartment. I didn't fucking ask her for help today... And I can't say no. There is no saying no it's like I'm fucking 12...
I want to fucking scream..
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learn to say no
No.. :tooth
see Francis, even Fred agrees
typical
highjack Dana's thread with your own crazy logic, you hoser you
Well for one, you don't need to say no.. But you do need to stand up for yourself.. :cool
And when you believe you act like a 12 year old people will treat you like a 12 year old.. Time to be and stand like a man if you want to be treated like one.
Why is anyone running to his Mom's because he doesn't answer the door ? I think it's time to sit down with MOM and have a chat..
Whose acting 12? I have a shitty sleeping cycle. My family knows this. My cousin has a tendency to show up at my parents and my place without notice. It bugs the shit out of me. Since my sleep cycle sucks I was in bed at 11:55. My cousin must of knocked on my door and I didn't answer so she went to my mom's work because she forgot her cellphone and had my mom wake my ass up. My mom cannot fathom why I'm irritated and it doesn't phase her that I really didn't want her here on such short notice. On top of it all she barely cleaned my house and had a bout of ADHD; instead of asking where shit went she just shoved it wherever. I'd be happy she wanted to help if she cleaned my apartment correctly.
If you paid her you could fire het sorry ass
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Since you won't stand up to either of them, why don't you set a regular schedule like every other Monday at 1pm. Then make it part of your schedule and help her clean and move things around. This would allow you to get some control over the situation and with a clean place you might even get some p**sy once in a while.
you mean cousin pussy or other pussy?
anyway I think I know what Dana is saying.
That would annoy me but I will say what I want when I want unless it gets in the way of what I want.
I would have just said
I think its awesome you coming here to help but I feel like........etc....
and then get naked and she'll get the idea
That would annoy me but I will say what I want when I want unless it gets in the way of what I want.
I would have just said
I think its awesome you coming here to help but I feel like........etc....
and then get naked and she'll get the idea
You CAN say no. Tell her that your sleep schedule sucks and that, while you appreciate that she's trying to help you out, you really would prefer that she arrange it beforehand. Personally, I'd tell her that I can clean my own shit.
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Well I meant other. No chicks want to spend the night in a dump.
No idea... I've asked her before on occasion. I usually pay her for helping clean it. But I just don't like when she gets the urge out of the blue and doesn't warn me and just shows up.
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