I guess im gonna be a daddy

[sexy.time]

Well, i the title says it all.
the shitty thing is out of the girls that i have slept with lately the one i got pregnant is probably the last one i would have wanted. I didn't really know what to say when she told me.........i said i'll be there for the kid, but i dont want to be with her.......
call me what you want ladies.....but im fuckin scared. I really don't want this, and yeah i know its my fault.

she says she was taking birth control and that the doctor says she shouldnt even be able to get pregnant cuz a previous miscarraige.
can anybody say TRAP!

god damnit i still havn't told my parents and im just freaked right out.

 

[CRZY72004]

why didn't you put a rain coat on

 

[AUDRAA]

oh damn! I thought this was a joke thread at first until I opened it. Time to man up shit happens but I have faith you will do the right thing

 

[Suzie]

Sorry to hear that... as long as you are there for the child, and he/she doesnt see you fighting all the time with the mom, then thats all you can do right now. I hope everything works out for you... I know it can be a scary situation. Im here if you need to talk.

 

[sexy.time]

i guess i shoulda worn a rain jacket.......i fuckin hate them, and she said shes on BC.....shes a nice girl......but i have no interest in being with her......NONE. i just don't think in would work.......
But im gonna man up and say ill help out as much as i can.
shes 1 month i guess.....

 

[NightWarrior]

Wow. This is why I tell my daughters this... Before you have sex with a guy, make sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with him because if for some reason you get pregnant, you will be seeing him for quite some time. I feel for this child being brought into the world when one doesn't want it.

 

[sexy.time]

exactly.......both me and her are ill-prepared.....i thought about that alot......

but guess what shes really christian......

oh god, the more i talk about this the more i freak out.
FUCK.......

 

[Suzie]

I know its hard to think about this right now... but honestly, my life has gotten 1,000 x better since having my boys. You learn what life is really about... and I cant imagine my life without them.

 

[AUDRAA]

this is a pretty normal reaction hun after the initial shock wears off youll be able to focus a little better.

 

[Miranda]

I don't even know what to say. This just hits so close to home that I feel like I'm going to throw up. If you ever need to talk you know where to find me.

 

[sexy.time]

i didnt go to work on friday cuz i found out the night before and i had a few drinks and it kinda settled with me.............when i woke up friday i started freaking out.....like hyper ventalating and stuff.......
am i a bad person for secretly hoping she has another miscarraige?

 

[CRZY72004]

just remember to be civil to each other don't fight and argue in front of the baby the last thing you need is for the baby to grow up knowing that he/she was not wanted

 

[AUDRAA]

I think thats part of the emotions you go through but I think when that baby comes you wont really feel that way, and as unhappy as you are about this right now stay involved because I promise you, you will regret it if you dont later

 

[groundpounder]

man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh man oh MAN! :eek

 

[groundpounder]

am i a bad person for secretly hoping she has another miscarraige?

don't wish for this - karma

 

[Peter Parka]

I don't even know where to begin with this thread. Its just so nice that people like me and my wife who want kids can't have them when kids are being born to parents who don't want them like here!

 

[Jersey]

don't wish for this - karma

:homo:... you dont really want this... believe me

 

[sexy.time]

im sorry bout your situation Peter, that makes me feel like a undeserving person......and i probably am..
i always thought my boys were kinda bad at swimming cuz im a stoner......

guess not.

 

[NightWarrior]

You have to be careful where you spread your baby gravy or your man-chowder. I was your age when I made that mistake. Your life is not over, but you certainly didn't make it easier. Just man the fuck up, grow up, and help that girl out. She needs you just as much to reassure her that you will be there.

 

[Veronica]

Its not as bad as you think.. believe me, its worse for the girl.

Noone thinks you are a bad person for being scared. Thats a normal reaction. Just do what you say you are gonna do and man up and take care of the baby. The state has good insurance plans, so she should beable to get on medicaid or something.