I am too picky?

[AnitaBeer]

yeah but you still look dont you? You can look and not have any intention of bringing them home

No not really. I'm there with my friends who I don't see that much so I don't really care to look around. I'll chat with others I am friends with that I run into and whoever they introduce me to, but definitely not there to scope out guys.

Don't get me wrong I used to, like a couple years ago, but just don't any more.

 

[DoctorDisco]

Was flirting, dancing, and everything was like clock work. But I just did it because I felt obligated to. I felt like I was chaperoning a field trip.

Bimbos? Some. But there were 8s, 9s, and a 10.

I can't get an erection from men although gay people tend to be interesting personalities.

I am either really depressed like Peter suggested or in denial of gay sexuality.

 

[snuggles26]

Did someone say the word Gay :24::24:

 

[DoctorDisco]

I didn't know he said anything like the above Donnie.

It's a shame though, he's such a cute guy.

Thank you

 

[Peter Parka]

Maybe you're just a deep guy and nightclubs where girls are drunk and you cant hear what the're on about isn't really the place that you see them at their best? What are your interests? Maybe their are clubs where you can meet girls interested in the same thing away from all that? I honestly dont find pubs and clubs the best place to get to know a woman anyway.

 

[SammyStephens]

Was flirting, dancing, and everything was like clock work. But I just did it because I felt obligated to. I felt like I was chaperoning a field trip.

Bimbos? Some. But there were 8s, 9s, and a 10.

I can't get an erection from men although gay people tend to be interesting personalities.

I am either really depressed like Peter suggested or in denial of gay sexuality.

Well, in all honesty, if that is the way you swing, then batter up!!! Not something for me personally, but to hell with it, it's better you are in some game then the sidelines. Either that or you need to chear the fuck up and mount one of those 8,9s, or 10s

 

[Alien Allen]

Because no one my age has the emotional maturity, intelligence, or confidence that I want in a companion.

That right there says it all. You have an inflated opinion of yourself. Signs of narcissism.

 

[Leah Love]

Thank you

You are welcome

Go to the theater, the library, book readings, whatever you are interested in and you'll meet someone who you'll like. Give it time

 

[Tyler Durden]

I am either really depressed like Peter suggested or in denial of gay sexuality.

Or perhaps you're like a small percentage of guys (including Brit comedian Kenneth Williams) in that you are just repulsed to the act of sex with either gender. He was homosexual in the sense that, if he was interested, it would have been in men.....but the point is that some people are just put off by physical interaction regardless of their sexual preference.

 

[Peter Parka]

This is true. Lawrence of Arabia was asexual too. :nod:

 

[canidae]

That right there says it all. You have an inflated opinion of yourself. Signs of narcissism.

Yup - narcissistic here too. But I was lucky, I actually found the girl that fit my personality. She shuts down my narcissistic side with her Italian side :nuts:

But . . . 8 girls? I get that too, cept they mostly want to kick my ass when they gang up like that :24:

 

[Keight]

Um how old are you?

Maybe you just arent into sex right now which is kinda strange but depending on your age you could be in a slump maybe?
Or the last experience you had was a bad one so its put you off for life, if thats the case you gotta get back on the horse dude before you turn gay :shrug:

 

[DoctorDisco]

Maybe I am narcissistic. Ill think about it.

I am 19.

Tonight we went to a Val party. Got some offers for convo but blew most off. I did however have a very entertaining conversation with a flamboyant homosexual. lol But no attraction

 

[SammyStephens]

Maybe I am narcissistic. Ill think about it.

I am 19.

Tonight we went to a Val party. Got some offers for convo but blew most off. I did however have a very entertaining conversation with a flamboyant homosexual. lol But no attraction

If you are depressed, know this. And this is probability the most important sage advice I can give anyone. Happiness is a choice. I have met people living out of carved mud in a hillside ih Turkey. Some of the happiest people I have met. I have met rich people driving porches and living in mansions, miserable fucks that want the one thing they can never actually get....more.


It aint easy, and there is always snags, but choose to be happy, ity will make all the difference. Get that down first, then explore your sexuality

 

[DoctorDisco]

If you are depressed, know this. And this is probability the most important sage advice I can give anyone. Happiness is a choice. I have met people living out of carved mud in a hillside ih Turkey. Some of the happiest people I have met. I have met rich people driving porches and living in mansions, miserable fucks that want the one thing they can never actually get....more.


It aint easy, and there is always snags, but choose to be happy, ity will make all the difference. Get that down first, then explore your sexuality

Yes, like the story of the boy who lived in the concentration camp whos father told him that the routine drills and chores were just games. So he actually enjoyed his experience and came out a stronger person. He is now a successful happy man who wouldn't trade that quality time with his father for anything in the world.

If he could find happiness in the hell just by changing his perspective.. why can't I.

Great advice.

 

[SammyStephens]

Yes, like the story of the boy who lived in the concentration camp whos father told him that the routine drills and chores were just games. So he actually enjoyed his experience and came out a stronger person. He is now a successful happy man who wouldn't trade that quality time with his father for anything in the world.

If he could find happiness in the hell just by changing his perspective.. why can't I.

Great advice.

Indeed Bro, like my Dad told me when he grew up in the projects in Queens NY, he said "I never knew I was poor till someone told me, to me, that is just how you lived"

What I am saying, is fuck everyone else, be who you are, and people you will honestly like will elevate to you and you to them.

 

[DoctorDisco]

Indeed Bro, like my Dad told me when he grew up in the projects in Queens NY, he said "I never knew I was poor till someone told me, to me, that is just how you lived"

What I am saying, is fuck everyone else, be who you are, and people you will honestly like will elevate to you and you to them.

Profound

 

[SammyStephens]

Profound

*tips hat*

I have my moments

 

[Keight]

ok your 19 and not interested in hot chicks.... i honestly dont know where to go with that

 

[dkwrtw]

it really does sound like you might be a little gay dude.