I am too picky?

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DoctorDisco

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Let me just start this out by saying: I don't go out much.

I have done a lot of thinking about relationships and people.

And I started telling myself that relationships don't appeal to me. Because no one my age has the emotional maturity, intelligence, or confidence that I want in a companion.

I thought that like usual my penis would think otherwise when it came down to it.

So tonight my friend dragged me out. We went to a hookah bar/dance club with some of his female friends. The girls met more girls. And by the end of the night I was surrounded by gorgeous women 8 or more at a time. I won't go into details but they all pretty much revolved around me. I felt special, yes. Interested? No.

I might just be depressed. Maybe I need to watch a sad movie. Or maybe I just need to get married.

Thoughts?
 
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Surrounded by women? Eight at a time? I spend my night looking at stupid pictures on the internet with eight guys. Quit bitching.
 

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Nope, he said he was surrounded by *, count them 8 gorgeous women and did not even make a move on 1, count it 1 of them!!!

He is either too picky and needs to get his head out of his ass or he is gay. Or those girls were bimbos

He may be a shy guy, or maybe he is like my best friend.... picky as hell -- virgin at 25, nearly 26 - wants a woman who is perfect, like him....
 

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Dude, if you're into it, you gotta jump on those opportunities. They do stop after a time, and you'll be beating yourself (until you're blind, possibly :D) if you don't jump on them.
 

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u sounds just like my friend.. some hot girl came up to him in a club.. drooling allover him.. practically pushing her breasts in his face and asked if he wanted to dance.. he said.. without batting an eyelid.. "maybe later"
He does however spend all his time talking to a gay bouncer.. just an observation
 

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Im thinking you are probably gay too based on what youve said in the past, I dunno did you find yourself looking at the men around you? I think you need to sit back and really have a conversation with yourself on this and see exactly what it is that youre looking for, maybe it could be nothing youre not ready, or its just women arent your thing.
 

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Dosen't neccesarily mean you're gay, depression can seriously affect your sex drive. Why not hit a couple of gay clubs and see how you feel there? For gods sake, dont even think about marriage right now! Its not fair to ruin some poor girls life if you're unsure of your feelings.
 

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Or maybe just the thought of taking someone home from the bar doesn't appeal to you. I'm the same way, but towards guys. I'm not at the bars to get hit on or to meet a guy for a one night stand. So I usually don't pay much attention to em.
 
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