How do you deal with negative-minded people?

[Starmix]

we are not here to please everyone, we can try....besides, I am sure there are employees at the "happiest" place on Earth (Disneyland/Disney world) who have to deal with this a ton and have to try their best to shrug it off

Yes, that is so true, we need to laugh though there is or season to laugh and t smile though there is no reason to smile.lol.

 

[Starmix]

…I don’t know really… I think that I’m equally kind of drawn toward more negative thinking people as I‘m drawn toward more positive minded people…just obviously for different reasons…it’s all just a perspective of how we each look at things…half full/half empty, type thing ….but I think that we learn a lot and grow a lot through our negative times in life because those are times when we have to stretch ourselves most etc…and I would like to think that there would be some understanding and patience for me in my negative times…when talking those negativities through with people, we can find unhappinesses and self doubts etc and those can be helped to look at differently with giving some attention to that as it’s often the negative mindsets that are most in need of attention so long as it’s helping to balance with positivity…rather than feeding into the negativity and contributing to keeping in that negative plac…..that can become toxic….

Very well said. Let us just hope that those negative-minded people will change their mind-set through practice or acceptance of people's advice.

 

[cherry123]

Sure it is not good to be in a toxic environment for a long time ot can damage one. So the best is to run away

 

[Starmix]

Negative-minded people are incredibly vulnerable and so hard t approach them to overthrow their negativity. They get mad s we better stay away from them.

 

[cherry123]

Sometimes they might not even be aware they are that way it will help if you let them know

 

[Stardom22]

Negative minded people are likely to be poisonous

 

[Starmix]

You said it right hehe. It's hard to convince them to believe on our contentions. They'll follow their own thinking.

 

[Starmix]

Sometimes they might not even be aware they are that way it will help if you let them know

They need help but despite of our efforts they won't listen to our conviction. They follow their own, so disgusting.

 

[cherry123]

They need help but despite of our efforts they won't listen to our conviction. They follow their own, so disgusting.

yesh some of them might be going through some things which nedd going through a therapy to survive

 

[misha]

When dealing with them, keep your expectations reasonable. When you're feeling down, you shouldn't turn to someone negative. At the point when you really do draw in with them, utilize hesitant language. Accept their remarks without agreeing with what they are saying. Rephrase their complaints using language that is less jargon-heavy after agreeing with them as much as possible. You won't be able to alter their personality, but you might be able to neutralize their negative outlook.

 

[cherry123]

Yeah you cant change them or even be able to alter their personality, so you let them be

 

[misha]

 

[Starmix]

yesh some of them might be going through some things which nedd going through a therapy to survive

But I noticed those negative minded people are in good health, perhaps, that is their attitude, stubborn and deviating.

 

[Starmix]

Yeah you cant change them or even be able to alter their personality, so you let them be

it is hard to deal with them. They are on their own way and thinking. I think that is part of their brain.

 

[misha]

Negative minded people are likely to be poisonous

Yes in every thing they sees negative

 

[Stardom22]

How do you think they are supposed to deal with the negativity?

 

[Starmix]

Yes in every thing they sees negative

They also have some positive points. They just want to ignore our views feeling they are better than us. They are insecure.

 

[Stardom22]

They also have some positive points. They just want to ignore our views feeling they are better than us. They are insecure.

Sometimes the negative people are so right that they can never loose in the expense of waiting for the impossible to happen.

 

[Mystic]

Depends... i mean if someone is always negative then i will, of course, try to avoid them. However, if that's not possible i will attempt to move conversation into a more positive light... normally i can. Not too many miserable people out there that i haven't been able to crack. Honestly, it's the only skill i do have which is turning negatives to positives. It a drain, yes, however i think if you can find some understanding as to why a person maybe negative, then you can also find the opposite to carry them out of it.

 

[Stardom22]

Depends... i mean if someone is always negative then i will, of course, try to avoid them. However, if that's not possible i will attempt to move conversation into a more positive light... normally i can. Not too many miserable people out there that i haven't been able to crack. Honestly, it's the only skill i do have which is turning negatives to positives. It a drain, yes, however i think if you can find some understanding as to why a person maybe negative, then you can also find the opposite to carry them out of it.

I agree with you totally. Instead of avoiding them turn their negative thinking perspective to a positive one.