How can somebody possibly not know they are preggo?

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Dana

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I unfriended someone on Facebook a while back; I was tired of her hypocritical shit online and in real life.... I see how out at the club constantly with her hubby even though she has a family... Apparently I was informed by a mutual friend she gave birth to another kid nd she no no idea she was preggo given this woman is like 300-350 but you think shed feel kicking or notice she missed her period? Meanwhile shes boozing it up & tanning... That child is probably a prune...
 
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bit harsh

having a night out with hubby is not a sin and here say gossip from a mutual friend should never be enough to form a decision like that
 

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Just an FYI. Women who are extemely heavy or underweight often have cycles that are irregular at best or non-existent. I have known women who were well along before realizing they were pregnant and I have heard of some who delivered before realizing,"Houston, we have a problem!"
 

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I unfriended someone on Facebook a while back; I was tired of her hypocritical shit online and in real life.... I see how out at the club constantly with her hubby even though she has a family... Apparently I was informed by a mutual friend she gave birth to another kid nd she no no idea she was preggo given this woman is like 300-350 but you think shed feel kicking or notice she missed her period? Meanwhile shes boozing it up & tanning... That child is probably a prune...

If she doesn't want to raise the kids she should stop having them....sadly for her life is about buffets and beer.
 

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I heard a story about someone that was 5 months preggo and had no idea... LOL

I get that some women have different cycles, it happens! I am also aware that some of bigger ladies could in some way shape or form not realize they are preggo but there are signs man... Anything beyond a few months of missed menstrual cycles should at the very least warrant a dr. visit; most of the women Ive known freak out even if they are on some sort of birth control LOL. that being said, five to nine months of no menstrual cycle is pretty much a dead giveaway unless the woman is in some sort of contraceptive that would prevent periods.

It is also true that a night out the husband or other ladies while preggo is not a crime - Most often women want to get attention when preggo as hormones run rampant during a pregnancy - Now, going to a bar while preggo...? That is a little questionable but hey, just because she is there doesnt mean she is drinking or smoking!
 

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bit harsh

having a night out with hubby is not a sin and here say gossip from a mutual friend should never be enough to form a decision like that
Not harsh they're out at least one night a week and i always see her with a Twisted Tea in her hand or knocking back a tequila shot...
 

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Just an FYI. Women who are extemely heavy or underweight often have cycles that are irregular at best or non-existent. I have known women who were well along before realizing they were pregnant and I have heard of some who delivered before realizing,"Houston, we have a problem!"

My mom is heavy and always knows when she hits her menstrual cycle...
 

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Not harsh they're out at least one night a week and i always see her with a Twisted Tea in her hand or knocking back a tequila shot...
but if she does not know she is pregnant what is wrong with going out and drinking with her hubby
 

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Not harsh they're out at least one night a week and i always see her with a Twisted Tea in her hand or knocking back a tequila shot...

You're there to see them...IJS And yes, you don't have kids, but you're the last person that should be judging people for being in the bars too much, Dana.

Also, at my heaviest weight I was 346 pounds (yes, I just typed that for every single one of you to see). At one point I went 7 or 8 months w/o a period. I finally had to get put on medication to FORCE a menstrual cycle. Only after losing weight did I start having a regular cycle again.

Also, I worked w/ a girl who didn't know she was pregnant until she was 6 months and she was NOT a bigger girl. She was on birth control and only had a period a couple of times a year...apparently you can't use Proactiv while on birth control. :dunno
 

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For the record, I also have always felt that there's no way you can carry a child inside of you for 9 months and not know it...but I've never been pregnant, either.

And I'm sorry, but unless you have ovaries and a vagina, you have no clue about menstruation so everything you say about it is speculation. ;)
 

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he'd hate my family
we drink beer while we are waiting for more beer
lol
in all actuality being the weight mentioned she might be trying to fill the void of unhappiness
 

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AHEM!!!! I had my period the first 4 months of my pregnancy...that means I did not know I was pregnant until I was 5 months in!! This DOES happen! I didn't even know it could happen so I had no reason to think I was pregnant with my first child, but low and behold I certainly was! I was not overweight at all and my periods never changed in type of flow or anything. This means my dumbass was out drinking like normal and everything, which I still am thankful that I didn't cause permanent damage to my son. I don't know how I could have lived with myself knowing it was 100% my fault if something did end up being wrong. To sit and joke or laugh about people that go through this kind of thing is absolutely pathetic.
If this person is pregnant and knows it and is still out getting tanked then they have something wrong with them.
I'm not standing up for this one person nor am I going to start shit talking them without knowing the facts, however, I will stand up for anyone who has ever been in a situation like I have and have dealt with the shit talk from people that think they know everything.
 
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