Help! Need Advice.. girl in class

[shocker555]

Hi so I'm a 20 year old guy and need some advice.

I take only one night class currently (community college), one day a week for around 3 hours. There is a girl in our class that is really cute and seems nice from observing, but since it is a night class most people keep to themselves. Also, because most are going to bigger universities so they tend not to be as social because they won't be attending for long.

I am not a creeper who just stares or something, but she is hard to not notice

Now I have no idea how old she is (she could be a lot older) and what if she already has a bf or very well married..

There are some that are around my age, but others who are well 5+ years to me.

Now I know most people might say to just talk to her, but its not so easy I think. I am not really shy, but it just depends on the situation and thats my problem.
I don't want it to be awkward for her or myself, we only have like 8 weeks left together. But what if she is already with someone, and like when there are breaks sometimes we leave the room, but everyone else in the room is like dead quiet. I do think the best time to talk would be when she goes out during breaks. But if she doesn't like me it will make everything awkward won't it?
I don't usually pick girls up in classes lol and I'm not like a full time student.

So its hard because sometimes you find out these community college people live far away or will be going to universities in other states!


I don't really sit near her because most people sit in the same seats, so the teacher recognizes them. If I moved seats I think people would kinda notice something was up sadly lol

I don't know much about the girls personality so I am taking a chance, but that is always the most important thing.. but she just looks kind. I just don't know how I should make a move without surprising her or making it awkward.. she really doesn't talked to anyone only answers questions in class.

 

[JanieDough]

Tell her you are missing class nest Wednesday or something, and ask her for her number so you can call her and get the notes.

Then miss class, get the notes and start a conversation

 

[shocker555]

lol well I don't know her name, so I at least know that will be my first step. but its a good idea, i don't want to miss class especially cause we will be taking 1 out of 2 exams

also i want to be there and see her :nod: haha

 

[Godsloveapples]

Hi so I'm a 20 year old guy and need some advice.

I take only one night class currently (community college), one day a week for around 3 hours. There is a girl in our class that is really cute and seems nice from observing, but since it is a night class most people keep to themselves. Also, because most are going to bigger universities so they tend not to be as social because they won't be attending for long.

I am not a creeper who just stares or something, but she is hard to not notice

Now I have no idea how old she is (she could be a lot older) and what if she already has a bf or very well married..

There are some that are around my age, but others who are well 5+ years to me.

Now I know most people might say to just talk to her, but its not so easy I think. I am not really shy, but it just depends on the situation and thats my problem.
I don't want it to be awkward for her or myself, we only have like 8 weeks left together. But what if she is already with someone, and like when there are breaks sometimes we leave the room, but everyone else in the room is like dead quiet. I do think the best time to talk would be when she goes out during breaks. But if she doesn't like me it will make everything awkward won't it?
I don't usually pick girls up in classes lol and I'm not like a full time student.

So its hard because sometimes you find out these community college people live far away or will be going to universities in other states!


I don't really sit near her because most people sit in the same seats, so the teacher recognizes them. If I moved seats I think people would kinda notice something was up sadly lol

I don't know much about the girls personality so I am taking a chance, but that is always the most important thing.. but she just looks kind. I just don't know how I should make a move without surprising her or making it awkward.. she really doesn't talked to anyone only answers questions in class.

Get a little bit high and you wont have any trouble talking with her. It'll go smoothly.

 

[shocker555]

Get a little bit high and you wont have any trouble talking with her. It'll go smoothly.

I don't smoke :award::nanajig:lol
I really hope this girl is luckily single cause.. shes so cute, but I guess people say that you should go in with zero expectations so that is what im going to do.

 

[Jessica]

dunno what advice to give you, but best of luck and I hope she's single

 

[Haus]

1st of all. If you want anything to happen with this girl. Do not call her cute to her face IMO. Cute is for babies, kittens and puppies lol she is not hot, she is not cute, she is beautiful/gorgeous

When you go on break, strike up a convo with her. Talk about something that happened in class or something the teacher said, then introduce your self and then you can get a chance to know the girl with a little small talk. then if you can make eye contact in class with her. Smile at her. if she cringes, then well yeah lol but if she smiles back then maybe ask her to get a bite to eat after class someday

just my .02

 

[RedRyder]

You've got to just take a risk here shocker555..... no pain no gain.....

Here's a simple way to make conversation.... During break go up to her with a new pen in your hand and hold it out towards her while saying something along the lines of.... I found this pen... Is it yours?..... When she says no.... because it is your pen.... continue the conversation with some small talk..... Just let it happen and try not to think about it too hard.

If she says yes... the pen is hers.... well then.... now you've got some issues to deal with, yes? LOL!

 

[freakofnature]

1st of all. If you want anything to happen with this girl. Do not call her cute to her face IMO. Cute is for babies, kittens and puppies lol she is not hot, she is not cute, she is beautiful/gorgeous

You are so repped for that. I hate being called cute.:willy_nilly:

 

[Jessica]

You've got to just take a risk here shocker555..... no pain no gain.....

Here's a simple way to make conversation.... During break go up to her with a new pen in your hand and hold it out towards her while saying something along the lines of.... I found this pen... Is it yours?..... When she says no.... because it is your pen.... continue the conversation with some small talk..... Just let it happen and try not to think about it too hard.

If she says yes... the pen is hers.... well then.... now you've got some issues to deal with, yes? LOL!

good point.

 

[shocker555]

i'm going to make a move I can't wait :clap

 

[SouthOfHeaven]

best of luck to ya hopefully it works out towards the best

 

[Rhipunzel]

good luck.
just be chill with it.seems like you're crushin super hard and you barely know her.
but seriously you're in the perfect situation to talk to her.
ask her if she's taking the class for her major or if she's just taking it for the heck of it, ask her if she plans on transferring. talk about the work or teacher. it should be easy peasy

 

[Azazel]

 

[shocker555]

tomorrow the conversation begins :willy_nilly::nod: im totally ready, and zero expectations now. if not then we can maybe be friends. nonetheless its just good experience if there are others in the future. :thumbup

 

[Jessica]

tomorrow the conversation begins :willy_nilly::nod: im totally ready, and zero expectations now. if not then we can maybe be friends. nonetheless its just good experience if there are others in the future. :thumbup

good luck :thumbup

 

[JanieDough]

good luck :thumbup

:homo::homo::homo::homo:

 

[shocker555]

Alright.. I have good news and bad news.

In class she was there and I did not talk to them. But with reason! Next week I am for sure talking to them the situation just wasn't right. Let me explain..

1st) the class during break she was busy the whole time with some stuff. Usually she is not!

I saw her look at me I think when I came back from break

2nd) I usually wear contacts and one eye of my contacts I got a bad batch, so I had to wear glasses (ones I never wear besides in the house really..) now I know looks shouldn't matter. but I would go in with more confidence, and know I look a lot better with contacts.

if anyone is wondering

I wasn't making excuses, I see an opening to talk with them. And I got this opportunity in class to get a good idea how they are and I definitely thought that they seemed like a nice personality. While I didn't get the results I wanted this class, next class I'm going to talk to them!

I think next time I can talk in break or even after class when they are walking out.
I wish I could of today, but I will take a good obersvation and then pursueing next week. I'm not scared

 

[Jessica]

aw that sucks

good luck next time

 

[shocker555]

Thanks!
Yeah, well a lot of good came out of it though getting an idea who they are, so its all good. I just hope it goes well next week!