Guys vote only please.

[BreakfastSurreal]

well now that you put it that way, its a totally different ballgame! Tehre is a difference between wearing something that is cute and wearing something that is sexy/provocative. Dressing liek that CAN in fact attract the wrong men, because when you expose yourself you are sending out the message that you are easy. It may not be the truth, but guys are more likely to approach you with the mindset thinking they will get some if you dress too sexy. And also it might send an intimidating message to nicer guys, because in their minds they've already labeled you as looking like the kind of girl they don't want to go talk to, because they've been around that block already and probably don't want to get wrapped up in anything with a chick like that.

 

[Boomer]

well now that you put it that way, its a totally different ballgame! Tehre is a difference between wearing something that is cute and wearing something that is sexy/provocative. Dressing liek that CAN in fact attract the wrong men, because when you expose yourself you are sending out the message that you are easy. It may not be the truth, but guys are more likely to approach you with the mindset thinking they will get some if you dress too sexy. And also it might send an intimidating message to nicer guys, because in their minds they've already labeled you as looking like the kind of girl they don't want to go talk to, because they've been around that block already and probably don't want to get wrapped up in anything with a chick like that.

*Clears throat* Amen sister.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Kathy again, yea, not sure provacative is the right word, I mean I don't dress like a tramp or anything. Definately sexier though when I am out. I think you know what I mean. But in doing so, it does attract the wrong ones!

 

[Boomer]

Well there is nothing wrong with getting dressed up. When I get all spiffed up, it makes me feel good about myself. Its like masturbating....with clothes on. *shrugs*

 

[TheOriginalJames]

well now that you put it that way, its a totally different ballgame! Tehre is a difference between wearing something that is cute and wearing something that is sexy/provocative. Dressing liek that CAN in fact attract the wrong men, because when you expose yourself you are sending out the message that you are easy. It may not be the truth, but guys are more likely to approach you with the mindset thinking they will get some if you dress too sexy. And also it might send an intimidating message to nicer guys, because in their minds they've already labeled you as looking like the kind of girl they don't want to go talk to, because they've been around that block already and probably don't want to get wrapped up in anything with a chick like that.

*this is james on his laptop sitting in a parking lot stealing bandwidth*

As boomer said, Amen to that. A lot of guys have tried and failed, or been hurt by girls who dress super nice to go out and don't want to go down that block again so they go for the more laid back type of girls who may be blunt, but are very open and extremely easy to talk with.


By "high end" I never really meant that Kathy looks trampy or easy, She really doesn't look as that at all. She looks like she spent a good chunk of the ol' paycheck on her outfits, which is fine and dandy, but I wanna see what happens when she goes out dressed comfortably, jeans and a sweatshirt, very small amount of make up, maybe some nice non-chalant earrings that aren't that noticable, etc.

 

[Boomer]

Ah, I have this girl at work thats the same way. She isnt trampy or anything, but she spent some time on the wardrobe. So she always has the nice outfit and make-up. But one day, it was a Saturday, she showed up to work in some sweat pants, cross trainers a wife beater and no make-up. My jaw dropped at her natural beauty. I wanna marry this chic. She told me to come by some time this week, so she can trim my hair and make me dinner! OMG I'm rambling...

 

[TheOriginalJames]

hahaha boomer.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Boomer, hmmm...still thinkin about this one! I see James liked your response. I was sitting here trying to figure out if you were sincere about your little rambling or if this was another joke of yours. Whatever the case...I'd like to hear the end results on what happens with that! Kathy

 

[Boomer]

LOL I'm serious. This chic sits right in front of me and I almost cant stop gazing at her. *swoons*

 

[TheOriginalJames]

You don't seem like the shy type to me so far...so what's stoppin you? Go get a hair cut and make your move!!! : ) Kathy

 

[Boomer]

*rubs hands together* I can be shy if I really care about something. Ever see tommy boy? When he was talking about how he can mess up a sale?

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Yes...seen the movie. Classic!!! Just use some of your funny lines and make her laugh. I'm sure that would break the ice! You seem like a very comedic person. Laughter always makes it easier. Use your charm...you for sure have it! One has to go after the things he wants! Go for it!

 

[BKV]

I personally like the laid back easy going girl. Who only dresses up for special occasions. I like the informal casual look for a girl. It'll match me more that way.


Then of course she'll have to have a full set of teeth

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Teeth are good...yes...Kathy

 

[Boomer]

*Nodz* I'll see wut I can do Kathy! Thanks for the pep talk. ; )