Guys and their attitudes

[Mrs Behavin]

Do any of you other women have thie problem with your husband/boyfriend?
I get blamed for everything in this house. If something breaks or something goes wrong, etc., I will always have the finger pointed at me. I get so freakin sick and tired of it.
We just got into this big ole argument because the toilet is stopped up (really bad) and I got accused for it because I was the last one who used it before it stopped up. For Christs sake, all I did was pee!!!! But, yet again, its ALL my fault!! I am sick and tired of this bullshit!
Another example, about a month ago, he came home from work and turned on the computer and all the icons were re-arranged. I got accused of that too and I swore to him up and down that I did not do it!! But we got into a big fight about that too. And just 2 nights ago the computer started freakin out and the icons were all over the screen. And I said "See! I freakin told you that I didnt do that last time I got accused of it!!"
Its really starting to piss me off. I cannot stand to be accused of things I didnt do!

 

[HC_CrAzYHoRsE]

so what are you trying to say ? :dunno

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Im asking if any other females have this same problem with their husband or boyfriends. Of being accused of everything. Its stated in the very first sentence or two of my post up there.

 

[HC_CrAzYHoRsE]

geezuz!, is everybody in here completely sarcasm-proof ? :unsure

 

[OUZBnd]

Mrs., just remember it happens both ways, you may just fail to notice when you do it, and im sure its the same for him.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Re: RE: Guys and their attitudes

geezuz!, is everybody in here completely sarcasm-proof ? :unsure

No. Im just looking for an approapiate answer, is all.

 

[HC_CrAzYHoRsE]

sorry i thought you were just venting a bit, just trying to cheer ya up, failed miserably... how long have you 2 been together anyway ? and has it always ben like this ?

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Thats alright. Im just a little moody right now. We've been married 8 yrs. We got married young. I think being accused of things that I had no part of is one of my worst pet peeves. (that and slow ass drivers )

 

[Kungfu]

I am not female...*checks to be sure*....but I can relate somewhat...My wife blames me for everything as well....I just get used to it and tune it out...better to have a one sided argument than a 2 sided one..

 

[StangMang]

Re: RE: Guys and their attitudes

I am not female...*checks to be sure*....but I can relate somewhat...My wife blames me for everything as well....I just get used to it and tune it out...better to have a one sided argument than a 2 sided one..

HAHAHAHA you had to check HAHAHHAA :rofl

 

[Vfast]

Re: RE: Guys and their attitudes

I am not female...*checks to be sure*....but I can relate somewhat...My wife blames me for everything as well....I just get used to it and tune it out...better to have a one sided argument than a 2 sided one..

^^^^^^^
pussy :rofl

 

[Kungfu]

I am what I eat Vfast!

 

[Veronica]

Amy, it happens to me too!! So you arent the only one.

Joes been good lately though. He hasnt fought with me in a few days.. But typically everything is my fault as well.


Have you noticed that when your kids do something wrong, you tell your spouse, "YOUR children are acting up", but if they are being good, you say, "MY children are wonderful". HAHA

 

[Haus]

:funnah my parents used to say something like that. my mom or dad would say. can you believe what your son did today.

 

[Vfast]

that is a man thing

 

[Rusteh]

i'm with kung fu...i just learned to tune it out and because it seems like you women like chaos and controversy for some reason...so i just give you your 15 minutes (every hour it seems) to blow off steam.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Re: RE: Guys and their attitudes

i'm with kung fu...i just learned to tune it out and because it seems like you women like chaos and controversy for some reason...so i just give you your 15 minutes (every hour it seems) to blow off steam.

But see the difference this time.....is he started it. Not I.

 

[Rusteh]

I don't start it either...i get yelled at from after using the toliet that i put both the seat and the lid down...so i just ignore it cuz i know it's pointless bickering and something if i wanted to i could make fun of my significant other. I like making jokes and getting into physical play fights or wrestling over it....seems more fun for me :rock

 

[Vfast]

you put the seat down :rofl :rofl :rofl :rofl

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Just start accusing him of random bullshit. Maybe he'll get the hint.

lol I dunno, that might backfire pretty bad I wouldn't try that.

Sorry, I have no comments or suggestions of real value to you.