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[Dana]

Ya know you would think that becoming friends with someone over the last almost 10 years. You would let someone in on that your new wifey was preggo. I mean I knew they were trying when i went to their party back in August over the weekend of the 5th. Shit like that kinda makes you evaluate people. i've been nothing but supportive of them and my boy since I met him when he was a DJ. Shit just makes me evaluate people. i mean, i know people have lives but shit...

 

[jassilem]

Some people keep it to themselves for a bit incase they are scared of a miscarriage and such.

 

[333halfabeast]

That is kind of odd.

 

[Dana]

Some people keep it to themselves for a bit incase they are scared of a miscarriage and such.

His wife's sister and other friends have mentioned it on her facebook, thus how I found out.

 

[Dana]

I mean I'm not the type to stalk people profiles everyday. If it's not in the news feed im clueless.

 

[jassilem]

His wife's sister and other friends have mentioned it on her facebook, thus how I found out.

I don't know then. *shrugs*

 

[Extrovert]

Ya know you would think that becoming friends with someone over the last almost 10 years. You would let someone in on that your new wifey was preggo. I mean I knew they were trying when i went to their party back in August

That woulda made for some awkward conversation...

could ya just ask her to pass the dip while he had her bent over the coffee table?

:24:

 

[Dana]

Wow... I didn't mean literally at the party

 

[BleedingBull]

Wow... I didn't mean literally at the party

I think its called humour and maybe they have a lot of friends and its easier to put it on fb where they can all see it (you included) instead of ringing around every single person they know ?

 

[Darrell]

Maybe they saw your last avatar and thought it best to keep the kid far away? :jk

On a serious note, that's weird they didn't tell you, especially if you are friends. :dunno

 

[Natasha]

I don't think it's weird they didn't tell you, TBH. I mean, if it was on FB already I wouldn't sit there and think "oh, I need to call so and so and tell them." I would only call my CLOSEST friends (and Ripley's Believe it or Not, bwahahahahaha)...I wouldn't call everybody I know. *shrugs*

 

[HK]

I don't think it's weird. I would text my two closest friends or arrange to meet up and tell them, but otherwise I would just make an announcement on fb where everyone can see it.

It doesn't sound like they're snubbing you, they just wanted to tell everyone at once. Maybe they were worried if they tried to tell people individually, you or someone else would mention it to someone who they hadn't got to yet and then they'd be offended...

You don't need to overanalyse everything people do, this is hardly about you is it? They're having a baby, I don't imagine either of them thought 'the most important thing now is that we tell Dana'.

 

[BleedingBull]

I don't imagine either of them thought 'the most important thing now is that we tell Dana'.

Lmao gotta admit that made me laugh

 

[NuckingFuts]

When we found out that we were going to have our son. It was tell the family first. Then friends. That might be the case with them too. You said that she told her sister and some of her friends. Women talk bro. Fact of life. I did not tell anyone for over a month except my family.

 

[Joey]

I don't imagine either of them thought 'the most important thing now is that we tell Dana'.

I'm going to have a good day now funny stuff.

 

[Pumpkin]

I don't think it's weird. I would text my two closest friends or arrange to meet up and tell them, but otherwise I would just make an announcement on fb where everyone can see it.

It doesn't sound like they're snubbing you, they just wanted to tell everyone at once. Maybe they were worried if they tried to tell people individually, you or someone else would mention it to someone who they hadn't got to yet and then they'd be offended...

You don't need to overanalyse everything people do, this is hardly about you is it? They're having a baby, I don't imagine either of them thought 'the most important thing now is that we tell Dana'.

:homo:

 

[Extrovert]

Wow... I didn't mean literally at the party

Damn, and here's me hopin I could befriend ya and get out more.

 

[redliner]

It is there decision on who to tell and how to do it. Just because they didn't call to tell you personally doesn't mean you have to "evaluate" someone. Myself I call and told my best friend and then my family. Not just someone I occasionally hang out with. Do think of yourself in the situation. Think of it from there side.

 

[Extrovert]

Old school I guess....I bought cigars that said "It's a boy" (then its a girl for the second) and just passed em out to people.

 

[Mystic]

I don't think it's weird they didn't tell you, TBH. I mean, if it was on FB already I wouldn't sit there and think "oh, I need to call so and so and tell them." I would only call my CLOSEST friends (and Ripley's Believe it or Not, bwahahahahaha)...I wouldn't call everybody I know. *shrugs*

...ya if its on FB i wouldn't get too tighty whitey about it. I'd just congrat's them and move on. Being friends doesn't mean you have to share everything.