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Silly sounds like a good time to me..

I am going for my tatt tomorrow...

Are you going to be staying in Calgary a week from Tuesday or are we going to meet up the next go round?
 
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jassilem said:
Silly sounds like a good time to me..

I am going for my tatt tomorrow...

Are you going to be staying in Calgary a week for Tuesday or are we going to meet up the next go round?
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Next go around, we were just talking about that here, the one booking flights is in a pissy mood and mine's already done.

Can't wait to see pics of the tatt
 
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Grrrrr....I've been thinking of my sex life since last night...I always loved sex, I always had a great, pretty wild sex life but now....sex maybe every 3 - 4 months and I dread it. He's soooooooooooo serious and I get a bad vibe from him, I'm trying to figure out if it's because I'm mourning the loss of a fun sex life since being with him or if it's HIM that's giving me the bad vibe.....which sounds awful because I know I complain about him, but he's not a BAD guy....ugh...I just can't put my finger on it and I have to. I HAVE TO FIGURE THIS OUT.

I know I rushed this relationship...I shouldn't have now it's sooooo hard to make sense of everything.

Fuck this camp work, I have far too much time to think about things!!!
 
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Does he want sex more? Or is it him that has the sex on lock down?

Trust me I get the no sex thing in a relationship.

Is bad at sex? Does he no have fun with it? Does he not make you feel good?

I mean I don't get anything special in that department from hubby. It used to be fun, now when I finally convince him to do anything with me it's like he's only half there and it's a chore for him. Or I feel like a live masturbation tool for him.
 
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I gave up trying to initiate sex - I was super cranky months ago because it just wasn't happening, but I've just come to accept this is what our life is, sex every few months, and it doesn't even seem wanted it just seems like something that's suppose to happen because we're a couple.

There's definitely no fun...he's super serious...it actually shocks me when I hear him laugh, it doesn't happen very often. There's definitely no silly in him. I even said that once and he said "of course not" like it was beneath him...how dare anyone be silly. Well, I'M silly and I quite enjoy it.

I don't know...we have our problems now, but when we first met I remember thinking that I was so lucky...he was great...he was attentive, caring, great in bed and treated me like a queen. Now he never listens to anything I say, he hardly acknowledges I'm in the room, we NEVER have sex and the rare time it does happen it's like you said...I'm a human masturbation tool and he says I'm too much of a bitch to do anything special for.

Augh...I want things to change and we've talked about it but I think we're both so frustrated with each other we both feel like it's a lost cause.

I really don't want another failed relationship but honestly, when we're good, we're really good, but the bad times are far out weighing the good right now and I don't know what to do.
 
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I don't have time to comment right now sweetie.. but fuck most of the sounds like it's me talking about Jim.

*hugs*

<3 ya sweetie.
 
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