This was proven to me once again this week. Well, if you all recalled, I recently got fired from my job. It was kind of a huge relief to me because I had soo much stress at work and I just wanted to quit, but didn't because I thought it would be foolish, since I am pregnant and should probably save all the money i can. Anyways...last friday my husband's boss (who doesnt know that i am not working anymore) decided he was going to give him a $10,000 raise!!! He hasn't even been with the company for a year! Maybe 6 months! That is just HUGE to me. I think this is a sign that staying home will be ok for me. I only made about $18,000/year at the bank anyways, so this makes up for a lot of it. Plus, we don't need to save $2000 a month like we were doing before, we can cut the savings in half and we will still be doing well.