Nowhere in my posts have I indicated that in this scenario there is a man giving you a handgun, telling you to choose. I think you got this scenario from a post by another member. Do you understand that you have just redefined what the situation is? By you allowing all these other options to flow in, you have crafted the situation, allowing other decisions and then trying to attack my argument. As I have said previously, there is the choice between a loved one and two strangers. There is only that choice and nothing else. In this way, the choice can be made clearly.
Onto the issue of what your rights are, I can clearly say that you don’t have the right to place value on a single loved one over a number of people. Yes, I know people that would do far worse than kill two people to save a loved one.
And the point: Emotional attachment can lead you to make bad decisions
ok... um, so the only situation is the choice of between a loved one and 2 strangers?
ok.. and what environment are we in? you cant just tell us a conflict, with no supporting environment, and in such environment, there would be an aggressor (the one making you make a choice) who, if they did not have a way to enforce you to make your decision (by having a gun to your head, per se - its not the only thing that can pressed to you to show their aggressiveness), would not be an aggressor - which would then make your hypothetical situation not even have a reason to exist, even in the hypothetical sense.
in other words, i need more information then just "choose between your loved one and 2 strangers" because the choice depends on the environment.
and yes, i agree with that there should not be any more value to a loved one than the 2 strangers.
what i do not agree with is that there are no other options. and since you did not define an environment, there is no way to make such a decision, because it is impossible to make one, based on the fact of 2 strangers versus a loved one. what if you just had the worst arguement with your loved one? that would influence the decision. but that is not part of the environment, since you did not define one... nor did you say that one is at harmony with the loved one, since you did not define the environment.
so, yes, there are other options to consider, no matter how many options you say there are, which, by the way, you could just kill yourself, as so not to make the hard decision, and not place a value on either the loved one or the strangers. uh oh, there's an option that wasnt allowed... but id do it, just to satisfy the requirement that you cannot place one party higher than the other, in terms of value to oneself.