Does loneliness motivate cheating in relationships?

[MrDawn]

Do you think loneliness is a factor for why some people cheat on their significant other?

I've been cheated on many many times. When my ex wife left me for another man, she mentioned that I was boring and she felt alone. So I started doing some digging and this does seem to make sense. What are everyone's thoughts?

“It’s very common that people find themselves in long-term relationships feeling lonely,” says Niloo Dardashti, a New York-based psychologist and relationship expert.

People in a relationship can be lonely because something isn’t working in the relationship itself or because they look to their partner to fill a void that they’ve been carrying within themselves, according to Dardashti.

Whatever the culprit, here, a few experts explain why you might be feeling this way and provide ways to address the root of the loneliness you may be experiencing.

Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship? Here's What to Do About It

Loneliness is not just an emotion reserved for those who are alone

time.com

 

[cherry123]

I don't think so a cheat just go ahead with it. it had nothing to do with anything they are just cheats simple

 

[Stardom22]

No way I don't think so. A cheater is a cheater. They would do cheat when you're with them.

 

[cherry123]

No way I don't think so. A cheater is a cheater. They would do cheat when you're with them.

Sure I agree with you, a cheater is a cheater you would have to have that in you to exhibit it.

 

[Stardom22]

Sure I agree with you, a cheater is a cheater you would have to have that in you to exhibit it.

A cheater would never admit it even after catching them ready handed cheating.

 

[cherry123]

A cheater would never admit it even after catching them ready handed cheating.

That's true that is why it isn't about loneliness they just want to do it which is bad.

 

[Stardom22]

Loneliness would not cause one to lust with lovers but the person's character will do that.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

One thing that is certain in life is that there is no provision for vacuum in humans. When the partner is not emotionally available, they have to fill in that void, and cheating would necessarily happen.

 

[Nomad]

Loneliness, toxicity, disrespect can cause people to cheat on their partners. But I also believe these are no excuses to cheat, if you don't like your partner just say it and then separate. Once separated, you can date anyone you want.

 

[Lolita]

Loneliness, toxicity, disrespect can cause people to cheat on their partners. But I also believe these are no excuses to cheat, if you don't like your partner just say it and then separate. Once separated, you can date anyone you want.

Loneliness can be a trigger, but it’s not an excuse. I believe cheating often stems from deeper issues like lack of communication or connection. Addressing those feelings openly is healthier than betraying trust.

 

[Nomad]

Agreed. Loneliness can bring people together and if they are not single, it will soon move towards cheating. Well, this is certainly not an excuse.

 

[Fidelia]

I would never justify cheating in a relationship. I understand that some people can't stand the vaccum created by being in a relationship but still feeling lonely. I would not cheat in a relationship because of loneliness. I would breakup and date someone that is available.

 

[Urvashi]

If your partner doesn't care for you and you are lonely I this cheating easily comes to you

 

[King Belieal]

Ex

I would never justify cheating in a relationship. I understand that some people can't stand the vaccum created by being in a relationship but still feeling lonely. I would not cheat in a relationship because of loneliness. I would breakup and date someone that is available.

Exactly my thought too, you can always let go if you aren't satisfied with your current partner after addressing the issue and noticed there's still no change, I don't see anything bad in that. But cheating, it ruins trust and it's very bad .

 

[monaco66]

No, not at all, cheating starts with you as a person, there are people who cheat, people who don't, it depends 100% on the person. I have never cheated in my life nor would I cheat on my partner, loneliness doesn't matter.