Do you have your "personal space"

[retro]

You don't know who the hell you think i am? You're the one making assumptions and you have the audacity tell me I shouldn't be getting defensive? LOL Well, why don't you hit me up and talk to me then. Shit. you can only go by what you read and I assure you there's more to me than the stuff I post.

Dude... all we have to go on is the bullshit that you post around here. You act like your shit doesn't stink and that everyone else are just assholes for how they react to you. It seems like you get pissed off at every social interaction that doesn't go exactly how you want it to.

Grow up and realize that the world does not, in fact, revolve around you. It might make you a happier person overall. But don't get pissed off at people for them commenting about you based on what you post. If you don't like it, pay attention to the shit that you post like I've already said.

 

[Niamh]

God, I was simply venting. You all make it a bigger issue than it has to be. Some folks act like I'm frigging insulting them. Get a grip.

well, if you make a thread I suppose you encourage peoples opinion. I wouldn't worry too much anyway, just forget about her and move on to the next girl who gives you the right signals!

 

[retro]

But here's the crux of the matter Dana.

She told you that you were too close.

You ignored her.

She responded with hostility because you didn't respect her personal boundaries that she had just informed you of.

You were being incredibly rude as a result, and were a jackass in the situation.

 

[Dana]

My shit stinks... Never go into a restroom after i've taken a dump. Just saying.

 

[retro]

My shit stinks... Never go into a restroom after i've taken a dump. Just saying.

You'd never know it from the way that you talk. You never admit fault for anything as near as I've been able to tell from the stuff that you post.

 

[Dana]

But here's the crux of the matter Dana.

She told you that you were too close.

You ignored her.

She responded with hostility because you didn't respect her personal boundaries that she had just informed you of.

You were being incredibly rude as a result, and were a jackass in the situation.

I didn't ignore her. Where did you get that?

 

[AUFred]

You were humping her leg weren't you? :24:

 

[Zorak]

If a woman says you are getting too close; take the hint.

 

[AnitaBeer]

Good for the girl.
She was a hell of a lot nicer than I would have been.
If someone doesn't back off when told they are too close, then they get help from me on moving. If someone is going to be a d-bag and ignore me when told they are too close then they deserve every bit of attitude I have to offer.

Same goes for this girl.

 

[AstriaPorta]

I do... I feel uncomfortable if people are close to me but then again i don't like places with lots of people also i feel uncomfortable ..i was way too shy ..change a little with the years but still if i don't know well someone i am not comfortable ..most of the times you can see it how i act ..hate this of myself but not easy to change

 

[Withers]

You don't know who the hell you think i am? You're the one making assumptions and you have the audacity tell me I shouldn't be getting defensive? LOL Well, why don't you hit me up and talk to me then. Shit. you can only go by what you read and I assure you there's more to me than the stuff I post.

Well sweetheart, I certainly hope there's more to you than what you post around here because you come off as a cocky, self-absorbed, chauvinistic asshole that thinks every girl he talks to should bow down and kiss his feet!! If you'd like I can go and pull a few posts of yours to prove my point. Anyhow, I'm taking the high road here. I have no desire to get to know you. Any INKLING of a desire for camaraderie with you was squashed long ago. Do yourself a favor, grow up. Stop putting your business out here for all of us to read if you can't be a man and take what comes to you as a result of it.

Dude... all we have to go on is the bullshit that you post around here. You act like your shit doesn't stink and that everyone else are just assholes for how they react to you. It seems like you get pissed off at every social interaction that doesn't go exactly how you want it to.

Grow up and realize that the world does not, in fact, revolve around you. It might make you a happier person overall. But don't get pissed off at people for them commenting about you based on what you post. If you don't like it, pay attention to the shit that you post like I've already said.

:clap Way to go retro. My thoughts exactly.

 

[Loyalist]

Dana.... not passing judgment here because I haven't been here long enough to but from what I've read so far, in a few of your threads, your getting told off for one reason or another.
Just wanting to know, is that part of some sort of master plan ?
Like I said its not a judgment but a simple observation.

 

[Xeno]

I was trying to talk to this woman last night and it's hard to talk to someone when your like 2 feet away and she was being a major bitch and said i was getting too close, then proceeded to tell me to go away. Ugh that fucking pissed me off. And an acquaintance was standing next to her. So do you have your personal boundaries? Personally i think it's on some childish crap. I wasn't being rude at all.

I did not realize it was childish to want some personal space these days.

(...next it'll be childish to turn down a sexual advance...)

(...only at oTz can you read stuff like this...)​

 

[Natasha]

I have myspace.com >.<

I didn't know anybody had Myspace anymore. :24: Actually, mine is still up and running...I need to get rid of it.

Yes it should matter... She gave me an attitude. If shed asked nicely i wouldve just moved back.

You don't know her history. She could be a rape victim who has SERIOUS social issues w/ men being too close to her b/c it brings back memories of her attack...you never know. If I don't know you well, I don't want you all up in my space, even if it's in the club. Now my friends and family, they can get as close as they want. Me and my bestfriends will snuggle up on the couch and watch TV sometimes and I have no problems w/ that. Otherwise I want people about 4 feet away.