Dating sites

[Mrs Behavin]

I'd create a "fake" profile and then see if we were compatible :dunno

I like the way you think!

But 1 question, what do ya do if me "the fake profile" and he start getting to where we talk all the time?
I guess that just gives me the proof I need that he would be untrustworthy :cool

 

[teh_fuzz]

Confront him/her and ask for some answers... NOW

 

[SRC]

I just wanna throw something out there and see what everyones opinions are about this.
What would be your reaction and what would you do, if anything............if you found out that your spouse/partner was signed up with a dating site?
Do you confront them, with the possibilty of them knowing you was being nosy, or do you not say anything and see how it all pans out, or do you get the heck out of dodge?

I would tell himt hat one of my friends told me they saw my husband on a dating site, and ask wtf that was about?

 

[NightWarrior]

I like the way you think!

But 1 question, what do ya do if me "the fake profile" and he start getting to where we talk all the time?
I guess that just gives me the proof I need that he would be untrustworthy :cool

Then you know that it is time to hang your hat and move on.

 

[Keight]

I think it depends if they have done it intentionally, I mean myself i have joined a site not realising it was what it was until it was too late and i was already a member.... its ok i have alot of those days when im not really paying attention lol.
However if it was intentional id ask them why they joined it to begin with if they are supposed to be happy in the situation they are in now.
Then if all else fails you grab some duct tape, a rubber glove...... Um nvm.... basically last resort is the worst reaction.

 

[Butterfly]

It really wouldn't bother me. But then again, I am not the jealous type at all.

If I was in your position, I'd go with the fake profile, see how far he is willing to go.

 

[Ria]

Aww, Amy, so maybe that's why he has been 'appearing' to be nice all over again!? Hummmm.

I was cheated on a few times and I recognised all the signs in the end - change of character/out of character gestures etc.

Change of mood - from not so happy, to something like too happy compared, things like that.

Well, although it's tempting to be a 'fake date' and you would probably know then, by responding to him, I think that mind games get dangerous and are pointless to be honest, because it just prolongs the agony for you.

You have found that he is there and that's enough to go on - no-one accidentally comes by those things and then keeps it going - it's deliberate.

If he is doing it online, what's he doing behind your back? If not being faithful to you, then he isn't gonna be faithful to those online either...

I would confront him over it, but you can choose your moment with it, without mind games. They just get too messy and things become more fraught than necessary. I feel it's always best to get it over and done with, otherwise too much bitterness can set in. Why should you make yourself feel like that, through him being unfaithful (if that is what's going on).

It's a bit in your face though, with him being on that online dating site in the first place.

I hope things are going to be ok for you hun and just keep yourself reminded that you are the sweetest person ever hun and you deserve respect or he isn't worth anything.

Don't be fooled anymore, if indeed, that's what's going on.

I would hate to see you hurt in that way or any other, with all the goodness in your heart that you hold for everyone.

Take care. *big hug*

 

[NuckingFuts]

I would cut her fricken Tits off. No just kidding I would hope that she just did not remove old shit, and ask here.

 

[Maritxu]

I defenitely would get suspicous and would try to see what he is doing there. I would comfront him if I found something weird

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I would cut her fricken Tits off. No just kidding I would hope that she just did not remove old shit, and ask here.

huh? I dont get what ya just said there :confused

 

[SouthOfHeaven]

huh? I dont get what ya just said there :confused

he was hoping that the account was something she might have used before he was there..