So I do not know if it's because we are spending way too much time together so soon but I am starting to crack emotionally. We've only known each other two weeks and been together officially for one week shes been crashing here pretty regularly. I have to remind her constantly that she needs to get up and go to work at night. She tells me to wake her up at certain times then gets irritated when I walk in and remind her and she just falls back asleep and then I come in a few minutes later and remind her again. I get it she hates working nights. I get that shes been emotionally and physically abused but when you tell me to wake you up and you snap at me. Don't not expect for me to snap back a tad. Then she tells me I'm acting like her ex. Really? I haven't laid a hand on her. I do things for her and I treat her great. We just had an emotional blow out tonight she started balling and then I started crying. I just don't know... Shes done this a few times. I don't want to get snapped at for simply doing what she told me to...
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she then proceeded to tell me I'm a guy and to stop crying. Ok am I supposed to be an unemotional prick? I stood there silent and she then told me to say something because her ex would constantly just stand around and say nothing. But do I say something while shes emotional and have her snap more? It's a your damned if you do scenario.
I think you guys probably moved too quickly. I don't know if it's possible to back it up and slow things down, but if it's possible, I think that's what you need to do. It sounds like she liked the attention and kind of clinged to that...as a result, you guys got too serious too quickly.
I've been talking to a guy from Massachusetts for about a month now. He's told me he wants to be w/ me and he's REALLY growing on me, but I don't want to move too fast. I love that he tells me that he finds me beautiful and so on, but I don't want to get too used to it and then be let down when the compliments stop, LOL
Good luck, Dana. It sounds like she has a lot of issues. Her seeing a therapist is a good idea.
I've been talking to a guy from Massachusetts for about a month now. He's told me he wants to be w/ me and he's REALLY growing on me, but I don't want to move too fast. I love that he tells me that he finds me beautiful and so on, but I don't want to get too used to it and then be let down when the compliments stop, LOL
Good luck, Dana. It sounds like she has a lot of issues. Her seeing a therapist is a good idea.
I wish you would stop incessantly texting me. I get you're mad. I've been texting you on and off throughout your whole shift with the exception of when I dozed off. I don't work 12 hour overnight shifts. I'm a night owl not fucking the undead I do need my sleep. I get you're pissed at your roommate but you should be yelling at her not griping to me!
I knew this going into it. But she just needs to deal with thew consequences and tell her roommate how shes feeling. She came home to her lap top which isn't even completely paid off having a bunch of crap on it about working from home and she doesn't know how to get it off. She's affraid if she bitches at her roommate she'll lose the only use of her car she gets even though she supplies her with gas money. I tyold her to bring the lap top over tomorrow but shes still stressing,
I'm not so sure about this anymore... I mean why if you found a video of your ex on your computer knowing you're past would you watch it? I guess maybe thats my cue to back away slowly... If you're still getting emotional over an ex who bheat and emotionally abused you then you're not ready for this relationship. On top of the fact that whenever I try and help you you just snap at me.
Girl sounds like a train wreck. Tell her to get your coat on (I would be surprised if she wears a coat in cold weather). Tell her to step outside. Then you close the door behind her. Wave buh bye. Sound harsh ? Yes. Will you thank me for this advice ? No. You will just continue this cycle because by the sounds of it your just lucky to fuck anything with a pulse. You feel like you can help her ? Your a mess yourself. It is not worth it man. I know you hate me so why listen to sound advice right ? Or the truth.
HUH? I thought you guys were done? Is she staying at your place now?
We are done. She text me this morning saying her roommate kicked her out saying I'm sure thatd make me happy. I don't hate the fucking girl I just can't deal with her.
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