Could you move on from cheating?

[Chibson]

I can never tolerate a cheating partner. cheating is one of the major things that would make me to move on from any kind of relationship. That is why I try to have options.

 

[cherry123]

I can never tolerate a cheating partner. cheating is one of the major things that would make me to move on from any kind of relationship. That is why I try to have options.

Having options is very important cheating partners comes with baggages and you must keep yourself away from such

 

[Starmix]

Our love to someone flies away if cheated. It's the pain to always feel and hard to move on.

 

[RUBESH]

Getting on from infidelity may be a difficult and time-consuming process. It's critical to accept your sadness and hurt as a result of the betrayal, and to explain your sentiments to your spouse in a straightforward and honest manner. This can assist to foster trust and healing in the relationship.

 

[Tim]

This is such a nuanced topic that everyone seems to gloss over. How long have you been with someone? What was the offence? In what circumstance did it happen?

I've been with my wife for over 20 years, would I throw that all away because she got drunk and made out with a guy or a girl at a party? So many people consider making out with some one cheating, so do I just kick her to the curb like the last 20 years meant nothing to me? No, that would be absolutely crazy.

Most of the responses in this thread are so vague because there are so many variables to consider to answer the question accurately... I mean unless you all mean that it does not matter how many years you've been with your significant other and the severity does not matter.

 

[Ammi]

This is such a nuanced topic that everyone seems to gloss over. How long have you been with someone? What was the offence? In what circumstance did it happen?

I've been with my wife for over 20 years, would I throw that all away because she got drunk and made out with a guy or a girl at a party? So many people consider making out with some one cheating, so do I just kick her to the curb like the last 20 years meant nothing to me? No, that would be absolutely crazy.

Most of the responses in this thread are so vague because there are so many variables to consider to answer the question accurately... I mean unless you all mean that it does not matter how many years you've been with your significant other and the severity does not matter.

…yes I agree, it’s such a layered thing …I think an important thing in ‘moving on…’…is whether there can be forgiveness/a true forgiveness… and that very much takes into consideration so many factors and the layer of trust betrayal is a key thing as well…I think that can be a very difficult thing to move on from…not the cheating itself but what sometimes envelopes it in behaviour which can be unrecognisable from the person you’ve known and trusted…it’s so layered and nothing that could ever be imagined until It’s actually faced as a reality…

 

[Shortie]

I could never trust someone who has cheated on me. If they were able to cheat on me in the first place then what is to say after they are forgiven that I would be able to trust them again? It's just not something that is possible and it would change so much.

 

[Veronica]

From being cheated on, in the past, I dont know if I could quickly forgive it. However, I have grown alot in my relationship and I cant say that I definitely would not forgive depending on what happened.

 

[AUFred]

Speaking as someone married soon to be 40 years. I would be deeply hurt. I believe her response would dictate mine if she cheated on me. I would want to forgive her if she regretted it. If she was not willing to admit it was a mistake I would not be able to forgive her easily.

 

[MrDawn]

I've never cheated but I have been cheated on. I was married for 11 years and the worst thing I did was forgive them and stay in the marriage. We divorced, I'm never doing that again. A lot of the things she did, I'm still sore about.

 

[cherry123]

it can be very difficult to forgive a cheating spouse but if you can you should and move away from it.

 

[Starmix]

We cannot accept back a cheater. In fact, I do not like to see even his shadow. There is no reason to dig the pain.

 

[cherry123]

Yesh some pains and hurts don't go away but you just have to try. if you can't cope then move on to better things

 

[Starmix]

The feeling is temporary but its impact the first time it attacks us is so severe that our mind becomes blank. We almost cannot find the answer to our questions why it happen?

 

[cherry123]

You can , you just have to set your mind to it. just remember the things the Person wasn't doing right and you would be find

 

[Starmix]

There is no other way but to accept the reality and to tell ourselves that everything happens for a reason and that what we feel shall pass.

 

[saoussen5765]

Sometimes hiding something from other people is something required especially during the relationship so for example people may think it is cheating but for example, your families problems are not something to share with your partner and you have to resolve them sparely so may be by saying them it leads to conflict with family.

 

[Starmix]

We can surely move on when someone is cheating us. We have the mind to resolve the cause and effect of the cheat. We have to consider our emotions.

 

[cherry123]

it is never easy but you can still move on when someone is cheated. you move on for your peace of mind

 

[Starmix]

it is never easy but you can still move on when someone is cheated. you move on for your peace of mind

Yes it takes time to move on but time helps heal a broken heart.