Confessions of a Dangerous Mind

[rback33]

Awesome pics darlin!

 

[satinbutterfly]

Awesome pics darlin!

I allowed you one bikini shot. That is all.

And thanks!

 

[Panacea]

Gorgeous, lady!!
Glad you had a good trip!
I feel you about the blisters I burned the hell out of my face one summer and looked like leatherface for a good month lol

 

[satinbutterfly]

Gorgeous, lady!!
Glad you had a good trip!
I feel you about the blisters I burned the hell out of my face one summer and looked like leatherface for a good month lol

Thank you sweetie!

I've never burned myself so bad I got blisters. The funny thing is I knew I needed a hat because I knew I would burn, but they didn't have any decent ones on the resort and I didn't feel like paying $40 to take a cab to St. Johns, so I paid dearly.

I've peeled twice so far and I may again. Still looks pretty red.

 

[Siphorous]

Hot!!!!! (and you're not bad too Ms Satin )

Some fantastic pictures there :thumbup Looks like a fantabulous time!

Now, make enough money and go yachting round the world!

 

[satinbutterfly]

Hot!!!!! (and you're not bad too Ms Satin )

Some fantastic pictures there :thumbup Looks like a fantabulous time!

Now, make enough money and go yachting round the world!

I'll tell Doug you said so.

(and thank you... )

Thank you... and seriously! The beach life would be awesome. :thumbup

 

[Siphorous]

I'll tell Doug you said so.

(and thank you... )

Thank you... and seriously! The beach life would be awesome. :thumbup

Seriously. Need to win the lotto big time to afford the darn yacht in the first place otherwise I would myself f'real!

Anyways, you know what legend says about the 29th February eh? Are you gonna, are ya?

 

[satinbutterfly]

Seriously. Need to win the lotto big time to afford the darn yacht in the first place otherwise I would myself f'real!

Anyways, you know what legend says about the 29th February eh? Are you gonna, are ya?

Legend about the 29th? What?

 

[Siphorous]

Legend about the 29th? What?

Well, as it's a leap year http://www.marriagecelebrantwa.com.au/the-leap-year-wedding-tradition/

 

[satinbutterfly]

Well, as it's a leap year http://www.marriagecelebrantwa.com.au/the-leap-year-wedding-tradition/

Yeah... ummm... that's not going to happen. He's basically already told me no way... not until I give away all of my freedom and move in with him first. Then he'll be able to judge if I'll make a suitable wife. I'm sure you can guess how I feel about that. :24:

I swear life is so much easier when you're single. And really I treat myself a whole hell of a lot better than any man ever has. If it wasn't for sex I think I'd just give up and be an old maid. Maybe when he stops giving it up as much I'll seriously contemplate it.

 

[Siphorous]

Yeah... ummm... that's not going to happen. He's basically already told me no way... not until I give away all of my freedom and move in with him first. Then he'll be able to judge if I'll make a suitable wife. I'm sure you can guess how I feel about that. :24:

I swear life is so much easier when you're single. And really I treat myself a whole hell of a lot better than any man ever has. If it wasn't for sex I think I'd just give up and be an old maid. Maybe when he stops giving it up as much I'll seriously contemplate it.

Aaah. That. I do remember when you first mentioned that, I should have remembered :nod:

There's pluses and minuses to being in a relationship and to being single I guess. e.g. Being single, positives are doing what you want when you want etc etc for one. Negative being loneliness etc. The right man will treat you right for sure.

I don't think you'll have to worry about the sex. After all, Doug is a man (unless you know different!!!)

 

[satinbutterfly]

Aaah. That. I do remember when you first mentioned that, I should have remembered :nod:

There's pluses and minuses to being in a relationship and to being single I guess. e.g. Being single, positives are doing what you want when you want etc etc for one. Negative being loneliness etc. The right man will treat you right for sure.

I don't think you'll have to worry about the sex. After all, Doug is a man (unless you know different!!!)

The only bonus is having someone to do things with. However, it's always his stuff that I'm doing and never the other way around, so in the end I think it will make me bitter.

And I'm starting to think there are no right men... there are just men and the bullshit that comes with them. All men think they are great guys, and outside of relationships I'm sure they are. But my experience has been when it comes to relationships men just fail. They don't want to put in the effort... they do in the beginning and then once they feel somewhat secure it just stops. I would say at least 95% of the women I know are unhappy with their relationships. It makes me sad.

Actually a couple of my ex's chose porn vs. real sex. It's easier and they don't have to worry about pleasing me. So it is a worry of mine.

 

[Siphorous]

The only bonus is having someone to do things with. However, it's always his stuff that I'm doing and never the other way around, so in the end I think it will make me bitter.

And I'm starting to think there are no right men... there are just men and the bullshit that comes with them. All men think they are great guys, and outside of relationships I'm sure they are. But my experience has been when it comes to relationships men just fail. They don't want to put in the effort... they do in the beginning and then once they feel somewhat secure it just stops. I would say at least 95% of the women I know are unhappy with their relationships. It makes me sad.

Actually a couple of my ex's chose porn vs. real sex. It's easier and they don't have to worry about pleasing me. So it is a worry of mine.

If you let that gnaw away at you, you'll become the thing that you don't want to be - bitter. You must have talked about this with him (e.g. things *you* want to do as well as things that he wants to). Has nowt come of those? If not, bring the subject back up. Don't let him fob you off. You may be having great sex which makes other things seem less important but those 'other' things will have to be dealt with at some point.

You're right. I think I'm a great guy. I have my negatives and I will admit to them - lots of men will no doubt say the same thing. However, even with your own experience and those of others that form that 95% - do you believe that even in a wider context most women would be unhappy?

Porn over real. Whilst undoubtedly it's quicker, there's something to be said for reality vs virtuality. I can't believe people would have preferred porn over YOU. Goodness.

 

[jassilem]

Awesome pics sweetie.. It looked amazing there.

Pretty lady! In a pretty setting!

 

[Panacea]

And I'm starting to think there are no right men... there are just men and the bullshit that comes with them.

I think this is undeniably true of all human beings. The caveat is, there's more bullshit selection than it seems, and we don't have to settle for the worst kinds. Some human bullshit is like you described, sure. Some is simple sloppiness, laziness, crudeness, forgetfulness, mama's boy-ism, narcissism, rage, lack of hygiene, etc

I suspect successful partnering is about finding a person with a brand of bullshit you're willing to hold your nose over so you can enjoy the pasture, yanno?

 

[Aeval]

I finally got to see the pics and glad I did, wow, gorgeous spot and gorgeous people! Glad you had a good time.

 

[freakofnature]

I haven't read any confessions in here lately. :unsure:

 

[Brujahpriest]

Man that looks like an awesome trip and such a cute couple

 

[satinbutterfly]

If you let that gnaw away at you, you'll become the thing that you don't want to be - bitter. You must have talked about this with him (e.g. things *you* want to do as well as things that he wants to). Has nowt come of those? If not, bring the subject back up. Don't let him fob you off. You may be having great sex which makes other things seem less important but those 'other' things will have to be dealt with at some point.

You're right. I think I'm a great guy. I have my negatives and I will admit to them - lots of men will no doubt say the same thing. However, even with your own experience and those of others that form that 95% - do you believe that even in a wider context most women would be unhappy?

Porn over real. Whilst undoubtedly it's quicker, there's something to be said for reality vs virtuality. I can't believe people would have preferred porn over YOU. Goodness.

You're right G... I really need to be careful about becoming bitter. To be fair... I was having a very bad day and far more negative than I typically allow myself to be. Forgive my lapse.

But yes... actually 2 guys have. So far no issues in that area though, and I doubt it will become one.

Awesome pics sweetie.. It looked amazing there.

Pretty lady! In a pretty setting!

Thank you Melissa!

I think this is undeniably true of all human beings. The caveat is, there's more bullshit selection than it seems, and we don't have to settle for the worst kinds. Some human bullshit is like you described, sure. Some is simple sloppiness, laziness, crudeness, forgetfulness, mama's boy-ism, narcissism, rage, lack of hygiene, etc

I suspect successful partnering is about finding a person with a brand of bullshit you're willing to hold your nose over so you can enjoy the pasture, yanno?

Very true. I just tend to hold myself to a higher standard and forget that other people typically can't match it. The real issue is with me, and not others. I just have to learn to let go a little, and there are days it's difficult.

I finally got to see the pics and glad I did, wow, gorgeous spot and gorgeous people! Glad you had a good time.

Thanks sweetie.

I haven't read any confessions in here lately. :unsure:

You're right. I should be confessing more. I'll work on that.

Man that looks like an awesome trip and such a cute couple

Awww... thanks Bryan.

 

[satinbutterfly]

Just for Zirc... a confession. I haven't exercised at all this week. To be fair I've been sick, but I'm really feeling like a lard ass, especially with all the damn girl scout cookies I've been eating.