Can a lesbian be a lesbian without having sex?

[Alien Allen]

Ok Red says a celibate nun can be a lesbian.

I say that it takes the act of having sex to be a lesbian.

So please tell me I am correct and she is nuts.

"thank you very much" as Elvis said

 

[Jersey]

I think you can be a lesbian without having sex. If you only think about or get turned on by women, then you certainly aren't straight.

If that's the case, how would a virgin know she's straight or lesbian?

 

[jassilem]

I think you can be a lesbian without having sex. If you only think about or get turned on by women, then you certainly aren't straight.

If that's the case, how would a virgin know she's straight or lesbian?

I'm with Heather.

You know which sex turns you on before you have sex. :thumbup

 

[RedRyder]

Ok Red says a celibate nun can be a lesbian.

I say that it takes the act of having sex to be a lesbian.

So please tell me I am correct and she is nuts.

"thank you very much" as Elvis said

You are nuts.
RedRyder is correct.
Nuf said.

 

[RedRyder]

I'm with Heather.

You know which sex turns you on before you have sex. :thumbup

In other words:

Alien Allen is nuts.
RedRyder is correct.
Nuf said again!

 

[wednesday]

I think you can be a lesbian without having sex. If you only think about or get turned on by women, then you certainly aren't straight.

If that's the case, how would a virgin know she's straight or lesbian?

:homo:Sort out ya lyrics Alien dude.:24:

 

[skyblue]

let a virgin lesbian nun out of the convent and she wont want a man......so yes

 

[triglad]

Yep i'm with the general concensus!!

 

[Alien Allen]

ok has anybody met a lesbian that did not engage in sexual acts??

 

[wednesday]

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!
HAHA....ner ner ner ner ner (omg how old am i again)

 

[skyblue]

ok has anybody met a lesbian that did not engage in sexual acts??

yes actually

 

[jassilem]

ok has anybody met a lesbian that did not engage in sexual acts??

Yes I have Bill!

 

[sophie]

Me too - we call them virgins 'round here.

 

[Alien Allen]

ya see that is my point

how can a virgin be a lesbian???

they never acted on it

 

[RedRyder]

ya see that is my point

how can a virgin be a lesbian???

they never acted on it

You are hard headed, you know!

If a person is gay from birth as is being suggested from various things I have read... they don't have to perform the act of doing it to be it.

Just as if you had never had sex (you have had sex right?)... it doesn't mean anything. You are who or what you are. Whether gay, bisexual, or void (whatever that word is)....

How can you not understand that?

 

[jassilem]

ya see that is my point

how can a virgin be a lesbian???

they never acted on it

Then a virgin heterosexual isnt' a heterosexual either? your logic this time isn't working

 

[Alien Allen]

Then a virgin heterosexual isnt' a heterosexual either? your logic this time isn't working

did I say a virgin is a hetero??

nope they are virgins

the third dimension

 

[jassilem]

did I say a virgin is a hetero??

nope they are virgins

the third dimension

grrrrrrr :mad

 

[lumpenstein]

ya see that is my point

how can a virgin be a lesbian???

they never acted on it

Do you try to be stupid or does it come naturally?

Question: As a young teen you had desires for a girl. You never acted on it. Conclusion: you are not heterosexual.

Does that argument sound as stupid as you do? You bet it does because it is your own argument!

 

[Alien Allen]

Do you try to be stupid or does it come naturally?

Question: As a young teen you had desires for a girl. You never acted on it. Conclusion: you are not heterosexual.

Does that argument sound as stupid as you do? You bet it does because it is your own argument!

until you act on it you are just a virgin

when you act on the urge then you are gonna be one or the other or bi

guess I am wrong but you will never convince me. To me when one is gay or lesbian they have passed on beyond having desires to taking action on those desires.