Call rejection

[dt3]

It sounds like she was already pissed about something and is just using this as an excuse, just my two cents worth. Otherwise, she is drastically overreacting.

 

[Kungfu]

It also could be that she has been feeling a bit smothered. At some point in most relationships you start to feel like all your time is with this person and you have no time for yourself to do things you want to do by yourself...Maybe this is the case. If so she will be back. she may just need a few days to catch her breath and actually miss you!

 

[MrAWatts]

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It sounds like she was already pissed about something and is just using this as an excuse, just my two cents worth. Otherwise, she is drastically overreacting.

Well I have complained about her mom quite a bit before this as well. Her mom is a cool person, but when it comes to me and her daughter she is a completely different person. She makes decisions I don't like, I bitch about them, Brittney doesn't like it. I shouldn't have bitched about her mom yesterday, we had already went through it, and I knew she had to stay there this weekend, but I am stubborn and can't get over stuff, so I complained about it and it pissed her off. I apologized countless times through email and text (since I can't talk to her), but it doesn't matter...she won't write back. I admit, I should not have complained about her mom, but at the same time I know that it is also not something that she should make this big of a deal about. If she just got pissed off and didn't want to see me yesterday, I could understand that, but to block my numbers and tell me we should go our seperate ways? Wow.

 

[MrAWatts]

Re: RE: Call rejection

It also could be that she has been feeling a bit smothered. At some point in most relationships you start to feel like all your time is with this person and you have no time for yourself to do things you want to do by yourself...Maybe this is the case. If so she will be back. she may just need a few days to catch her breath and actually miss you!

That is possible. She doesn't do anything with her friends, but there is reason for that. Her friends like to do things we don't. They drink, party, and hang out with people they shouldn't. I don't want her around those types of people ya know? She is a good girl, and I would hate to see her get mixed up with that stuff. Lots of people drink and party, and that is fine for them, but thats not us. I am afraid that if she doesn't come around and call me, and it is final, that she will "fall to the dark side" and start doing things she wouldn't have before...

 

[Tim]

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Yes, she is my girlfriend, well...IDK about now...I will explain..
...I said something like "I probably won't be over any this weekend since all you want to do is hang out with your mom". So she got mad at me because I said I wasn't going to come to her moms house...I have said I wasn't coming over before, but I always end up going, I can't help it, I have to see her, and she knows that I would come...but she got pissed and hung up...so for the next 3 hours I call her phone non-stop to say I am sorry for getting upset about it, and she doesn't answer. At the same time I am texting her asking her to talk to me, telling her I don't want to fight, I just want to talk about it. She will not answer no matter what I say. So I said something like "You have never acted like this before...are you wanting to break up with me?" And then she told me to stop calling or she would have her mom answer and tell me to stop, and that maybe it's best if we go our seperate ways. I tried calling a couple hours later and the numbers were blocked. I have sent her quite a few emails since then too, since I couldn't sleep, but of course she hasn't wrote back...I'm extremely unhappy right now actually...sorry for length...but this is crappy..something so insignificant and stupid...If I would have just said "ok, be over in a bit", everything would be fine, but it isn't...she has never done this before either, we always talk about everything and work it out...

Take a moment and ask yourself that if maybe you let her settle down for a couple of hours, that things would have turned out differantly. Do you think that she was pissed for the moment and you pushed her over the edge by calling and texting non-stop for 3 hours? After refusing the first couple of calls maybe you should have let up a bit and waited for her to come around. I'm not trying to be an ass here, but if a girl did this to me (being so damn clingy) I would be pissed and rethink what I have with her.
My advice, sit back and let her come back to you. She will, have trust in this fact. You just have to let go and let her calm down on her own terms. If you keep pushing, she may walk away forever. You can't bully her back into your life.

 

[MrAWatts]

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Yes, she is my girlfriend, well...IDK about now...I will explain..
...I said something like "I probably won't be over any this weekend since all you want to do is hang out with your mom". So she got mad at me because I said I wasn't going to come to her moms house...I have said I wasn't coming over before, but I always end up going, I can't help it, I have to see her, and she knows that I would come...but she got pissed and hung up...so for the next 3 hours I call her phone non-stop to say I am sorry for getting upset about it, and she doesn't answer. At the same time I am texting her asking her to talk to me, telling her I don't want to fight, I just want to talk about it. She will not answer no matter what I say. So I said something like "You have never acted like this before...are you wanting to break up with me?" And then she told me to stop calling or she would have her mom answer and tell me to stop, and that maybe it's best if we go our seperate ways. I tried calling a couple hours later and the numbers were blocked. I have sent her quite a few emails since then too, since I couldn't sleep, but of course she hasn't wrote back...I'm extremely unhappy right now actually...sorry for length...but this is crappy..something so insignificant and stupid...If I would have just said "ok, be over in a bit", everything would be fine, but it isn't...she has never done this before either, we always talk about everything and work it out...

Take a moment and ask yourself that if maybe you let her settle down for a couple of hours, that things would have turned out differantly. Do you think that she was pissed for the moment and you pushed her over the edge by calling and texting non-stop for 3 hours? After refusing the first couple of calls maybe you should have let up a bit and waited for her to come around. I'm not trying to be an ass here, but if a girl did this to me (being so damn clingy) I would be pissed and rethink what I have with her.
My advice, sit back and let her come back to you. She will, have trust in this fact. You just have to let go and let her calm down on her own terms. If you keep pushing, she may walk away forever. You can't bully her back into your life.

What you say could be true. It could have pushed her over the edge by calling. I couldn't bring myself to stop though, all I could think about was getting her on the phone to tell her I am sorry.

 

[lemon]

sometimes, in life, its good to slow down and think






just dont slow down to much ... the exit says 35mph, not 15 :gears

 

[Tim]

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What you say could be true. It could have pushed her over the edge by calling. I couldn't bring myself to stop though, all I could think about was getting her on the phone to tell her I am sorry.

Could be true? Replay how it all happened and then ask yourself what advice you would give a friend that did the same thing...

 

[MrAWatts]

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What you say could be true. It could have pushed her over the edge by calling. I couldn't bring myself to stop though, all I could think about was getting her on the phone to tell her I am sorry.

Could be true? Replay how it all happened and then ask yourself what advice you would give a friend that did the same thing...

But if I wouldn't have called she could have take that as "I don't care, oh well". That wouldn't have been good either.

 

[Jersey]

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maybe Si can help ya. i wonder if *67 would let it go through. since thats the code to block your number :dunno

do *67 then *82.. ur number will just come up anonymous or something.... i used to be a stalker

yeah i know. im sorry i had to hit ya with that restraining order. but its something i had to do.

:lol RIIIIGHT

 

[jchittick]

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What you say could be true. It could have pushed her over the edge by calling. I couldn't bring myself to stop though, all I could think about was getting her on the phone to tell her I am sorry.

Could be true? Replay how it all happened and then ask yourself what advice you would give a friend that did the same thing...

But if I wouldn't have called she could have take that as "I don't care, oh well". That wouldn't have been good either.

I agree with Tim. That was kind of stalker-ish for three straight hours. And trust me, i know it is hard when you care about someone to let them know, but you have to think about it on their end. That probably scared her. Anyway, i wouldn't try and make any more contact with her right now. I know it will be hard and i don't think that she will take it as you don't care. Give her some time and some breathing room, and things will work themselves out. Good or bad.

Edit: Keep us updated on how things work out.

 

[Kungfu]

It seems there is a lot of anaylizing and over anaylizing going on...just sit back and relax dude or try to and see what happens and deal with it when it happens...not before it happens...sometimes you do more damage trying to anticipate what will happen...

 

[MrAWatts]

I called her stepmom and she said that she talked to her...apparently all that she said was that she needs time and space...

 

[Veronica]

i didnt get to read everyones replies, but go to a payphone and call her.

And anytime you talk about a chicks mom, she is gonna get mad..

 

[UncleBacon]

pee in her butt :dunno

 

[Haus]

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pee in her butt :dunno

listen to bacon. he's the king of having his calls rejected.

 

[UncleBacon]

zzziiinnnnnnnggg :rofl :rofl :funnah :funnah :rofl :funnah wned

well I guess thats payback for the fart thing hahaha

 

[Haus]

you got it. :lol

 

[karma279]

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I called her stepmom and she said that she talked to her...apparently all that she said was that she needs time and space...

As bad as this will sound... it's probably the truth. Sounds like she was looking for an excuse to end it and this "bitching about her mom" situation was it. Most of the time the whole "time and space" thing is the means to an end. Hopefully not though... maybe she'll come around. We don't know you or the situation but it sounds like she was wanting out.
Keep ya head up. That's all you can do.

 

[Haus]

any word on the outcome on this sitsuation watts