Yes, she is my girlfriend, well...IDK about now...I will explain..
I have been with this girl for just about 2 years now, tomorrow would have been a year and eleven months. It's been great. Every single day of our lives, we do the same exact thing. We are at each others house just hanging out. Most of the time it's her house. We go out to eat, and go to movies and stuff plenty, but we are each others best friends. We have our arguments, just like anyone does, but they have never really been serious. A couple months ago we got into it pretty bad, for the first time. We have excellent communication, so we talked it out and within a couple weeks it was water under the bridge, and we were happy.
Well before I say anymore, I should explain something else. Her parents are divorced, but each is remarried. They have joint custody. Every since she was about 3, she has stayed with her dad and stepmom Monday and Wednesday, and her mom Tuesday and Thursday, then every other weekend with one.
Well, her moms house is lame. Nothing to do, no internet, nothing. It's boring. Her mom is always sticking her head in like she doesn't trust us, and all kinds of junk that makes me feel like she doesn't trust us (which is fine and dandy for a parent, but after two years of not giving her a reason to not trust us, come on). So last weekend she was supposed to go to her moms house, but her mom wanted to go to their lakehouse they have. Brittney didn't want to go, so she stayed the weekend with her dad. Who goes to the lake during the winter...geez...Anyways, I thought that was cool because that would be the second weekend in a row she was with her dad, her dads family really like me, and I like them. Well, she said that she was going to be with her mom this weekend, AND next weekend (since that would normally be her weekend). Well, yesterday morning she called me asking when I was coming over, and I said something like "I probably won't be over any this weekend since all you want to do is hang out with your mom". So she got mad at me because I said I wasn't going to come to her moms house...I have said I wasn't coming over before, but I always end up going, I can't help it, I have to see her, and she knows that I would come...but she got pissed and hung up...so for the next 3 hours I call her phone non-stop to say I am sorry for getting upset about it, and she doesn't answer. At the same time I am texting her asking her to talk to me, telling her I don't want to fight, I just want to talk about it. She will not answer no matter what I say. So I said something like "You have never acted like this before...are you wanting to break up with me?" And then she told me to stop calling or she would have her mom answer and tell me to stop, and that maybe it's best if we go our seperate ways. I tried calling a couple hours later and the numbers were blocked. I have sent her quite a few emails since then too, since I couldn't sleep, but of course she hasn't wrote back...I'm extremely unhappy right now actually...sorry for length...but this is crappy..something so insignificant and stupid...If I would have just said "ok, be over in a bit", everything would be fine, but it isn't...she has never done this before either, we always talk about everything and work it out...