Are you still friends?

[Sim]

Ya know, even though my ex and I had a turbulant relationship, we still remain friends. Hard to believe, I realize, with what I state about him, but since it's truth, it isn't meant in a cruel fashion...merely facts stated for the relevant topics at hand.

He's there when I need him for anything, and takes care of our children. I'm there when he needs me. It's what friends do. Nobody can believe that we have a better relationship now than we did when we were married, but that's the way we agreed to be 11 years ago, and we held true to our pact.

So I want to know...after you have broken ties as lovers, are you still friends?

 

[Mini Vin]

i went with the yes and no option. my ex and i still talk, but she is all about trying to get back with me. when she finds out that i am not interested, she turns into the "evil ex". that doesn't bother me because there are no ties, like children or anything... now if my current girlfriend and i were to ever split up, i would do everything in my power to be great friends. mostly, due to the fact we are having a baby. i grew up with devorced parents and they hated each other. i would never put my child through the same thing....

i think its great that you two are good friends :rock

 

[Sim]

For a long time, my first ex and I had issues...mostly due to his lack of any sense at all. Then we got along for a couple years...and he recently attempted to kidnap our son, so he's not on my list of the best people right now...but I can still talk to him about anything.

This ex is snoring...so I might wanna change my answer when it comes to him... lmao He grew up in a divorced home which was the reason we decided in the beginning to go this route.

 

[Mini Vin]

you still live with your current ex?

 

[dt3]

I'm gonna go with fuck no, that lying cheating slutty ass whore can kiss my damn ass...I'm not bitter...

 

[UncleBacon]

the crazy ones no the cool down to earth one yup

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: Are you still friends?

lmao God no.

He was the one who brought me to the ER then drove me all the way back home today.

I live with my lover...and I can't tell you how nice it is to be home.

you still live with your current ex?

 

[Haus]

lmao God no.

He was the one who brought me to the ER then drove me all the way back home today.

I live with my lover...and I can't tell you how nice it is to be home.

you still live with your current ex?

isnt it great to live with each other sim. :wink

 

[Kungfu]

Re: RE: Are you still friends?

I'm gonna go with fuck no, that lying cheating slutty ass whore can kiss my damn ass...I'm not bitter...

In regards to my Ex-wife, I would have to also say what DT3 said, because it would be true in her case...all others I have retained a friendship with

 

[hhayes]

nope

 

[Veronica]

I parted with all my serious ex's on good terms, but I havent spoken to them in ages..

 

[Tazzy]

me unless you have kids i see no reason to stay freinds ...... That is past go on with your life and find some one new ...After all if you were meant to stay together you would have ....... But since you didnt then it wasnt meant to be :dunno :dunno

 

[UncleBacon]

just because your not together anymore doesn't mean you can't be friends...

 

[Tazzy]

Well yes i agree But usually you split due to things you couldnt agree about so why keep the disagreement going ??????? Or cause you just couldnt get along any more ????

 

[UncleBacon]

or you r lives were just going in different directions but the friendship is still there...

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: Are you still friends?

Oh yes, lover...it's wonderful! But um...you clogged the toilet again last night. I couldn't tell...was that a dead beaver, or was it just a log?

I live with my lover...and I can't tell you how nice it is to be home.

isnt it great to live with each other sim. :wink

 

[Tazzy]

Re: RE: Are you still friends?

or you r lives were just going in different directions but the friendship is still there...

Hum well that is a good point there ....... no reason i guess to not give them the bennifit of the doubt HUM ??????

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: Are you still friends?

So tell me...if you found someone that you enjoyed being with, but simply couldn't see yourselves being lovers, you wouldn't remain friends? I think it would be rather odd to not retain a friendship with someone you are friends with from the beginning. Friends don't dwell on the past, they don't bring up old arguments...they're not anything but people you can hang with and talk to at any time.

I suppose one would have to understand the concept of friendship to comprehend why it is two people can be mature enough to continue a friendly relationship, even after the lover aspect has gone.

me unless you have kids i see no reason to stay freinds ...... That is past go on with your life and find some one new ...After all if you were meant to stay together you would have ....... But since you didnt then it wasnt meant to be :dunno :dunno

 

[Haus]

Re: RE: Are you still friends?

Oh yes, lover...it's wonderful! But um...you clogged the toilet again last night. I couldn't tell...was that a dead beaver, or was it just a log?

I live with my lover...and I can't tell you how nice it is to be home.

isnt it great to live with each other sim. :wink

but i was the one who got it unclogged. so there. :booze

 

[lemon]

thanks for the forth option sim :dunno