nope.. Im the evil admin that had to remove someone from VIP.. Please everyone jump on me now.....SInce I am never fair or anything...
Being admin is never easy, you have to make the choice that you deem is right.
I used to be admin on a forum and I took some right flack because you just can't please everyone.
I don't know what's happened but if you think you've made the right move with whatever you've done then you've nothing to regret.