I went through something a while ago that changed my life and one of my thoughts was about my death bed and the regrets I might have. I live my life now in a way that will hopefully make that person happy. I live true to myself instead of what everyone else thinks.. especially what the social norms think lol. I let go of all the unhappiness in my life and most of the pressures. I never cared about money, the rat race, the ladders, industry, media, the million and one "systems" that fail us more than anything... and let it all go. Obviously I'm forced into a lot of it just for existing, but I'd opt out completely if I could.