Are you happy being single?

[Starmix]

Many said that they can't live without someone to love and when they found love they reversed their statements that it's better to be single than with someone ruthless who can't define what love is. Many married individuals also said that if they can only bring back the hands of time, they will never marry. I can't support their judgment for I am single. If it's true that to be single means complete freedom, then I may prefer to remain single. What's important is I have money despite no honey .

 

[Sanjeev]

Money and honey both are important in life. In my opinion when you are young you have strength and you can manage things even being alone but once you get old you need someone's support that's the reason I feel marriage is also necessary in life.

 

[arunima]

I am at a stage of life where I have been married for almost half of my life. People say a lot of things about staying single or being married. And all this can come from their personal experience or from the stories that they have seen or heard. I had a good time staying single for 23 years of my life. And almost the same number of years, I have stayed married. Life definitely changes after marriage but it doesn't get good or worse. I have enjoyed both the stages of my life.

 

[Starmix]

Being alone till old age might be like eternity without someone to take care of you. It is also essential to have someone in your life to care and be cared for, there are cases, when marriage turned sour because of infidelity.

 

[Nomad]

I am happily married, however, when I was single, I was also a happy man.

 

[arunima]

Every relationship including marriage needs constant nourishing to sustain. Be it any relationship, you have to give it your time, effort and commitment. Else it starts getting distant and even sour. Any relationship can go bad if both parties involved are not equally reciprocating.

 

[Niyi Briggs]

If the situation demands that I stay single, I make myself happy with that and make the most of that time of singlehood. The time I was single, it didn't make me less of a human.

 

[Urvashi]

I am in a relationship now and I am happy but when I was single, I was still happy

 

[arunima]

If the situation demands that I stay single, I make myself happy with that and make the most of that time of singlehood. The time I was single, it didn't make me less of a human.

That should be the attitude. You are your best companion and your long lasting companion. And our happiness should be in our control. We should not be dependent on anyone else to make us happy. In fact, I have noticed that many marriages and relationships go sour because you expect the other to make you happy and set a bar of expectations.